THE STORY OF MY BECOMING

ANOTHER START

As school was resuming I didn't resume with others I was at home undertaking treatments and others, a new transfer letter was brought up to us that we have been transferred to another station

We left Onitsha to our new home.

It wasn't easy to adapt to the environment but with God

We tried our best to do so

The church was so cruel to us that they didn't even give us an accomodation like other churches

They locked there ministers house

We where beaten by rain that day

We rented a new apartment in that place the following day

We slept on the floor for almost one month as a result of our bed being soaked with the rain

It wasn't easy but after few months we started adapting to the environment and everything

I was enrolled in a private school, I felt at home in that school I was welcome and loved,I met people from my village,which they later became my brothers and I can't forget them in a hurry

They helped me alot

I was chased out of school many times for school fees but God never forsake my family

After a year, we where transferred from that place to another place I left with my parents and my two elder siblings, meanwhile my younger brother is in boarding school, so we don't move with him.

We moved to our new station my mom found a school where she was teaching and I was enrolled in a costly private school

I was so happy. The school was full of luxury

I was surprised I never owe school fees in that school

But we never had money too,the church where so poor to take care of there ministers but God kept on providing

After school my mom will rush home to sell soya milk at a sand loading garage where big tippers load

I will always assist her

Remember my health was still disturbing me

I had alot of challenges that broke me down.

During my first three months in our new station, I mey this our neighbour who was kind to me, feelings grew, he fell in love with me I gave him a trial and found out I love him too

But it wasn't easy. He has a girlfriend which I never knew, the girl came threatening me a lot of times, he kept telling me that she was his ex

I agreed

Time fly,he travelled out of Nigeria,

After crying and all that because he left without telling me, I forgot about love and moved on with my education career though he started chatting me after some months he left there, but truth be told the feelings was never same again

A year later we where taking to another station

Oh God that year was after my life

I can never forget that year in a hurry

I thought that place will be better than other places. Things became hard my elder siblings are already in higher institutions, I was the only one at home with my parents and that was my last year in secondary school, but I dropped out of school because of finances. There was no money to take care of the four of us in school I decided to step down and start attending lessons, God by my side a member at the lesson said I shouldn't pay a dime till any day I want to stop attending lesson there

I was happy, I never played with my chances at the lesson.

I met new friends and others but still always walk alone. Alot of them came for friendship but only few was my true friend and they came with there clear minds.

At the lesson I met a new guy, David. His too cute and dark with his little eyes and his height, I was happy I met him we talked, chat became close friends.

My boyfriend, that travelled outside came back to Nigeria,

But he was asking for s*x which I was never ready to do at any given point of that year and at my age

It led to a lot of issues that led to our break up

David came in immediately asked me out

Accepting David was the biggest mistake.

It was going well,

He never stays within,

He comes back once in a while

David took an oath with me never to let me go

But still, he left me

Dating my friends cousin and still dating me

David took my vitginity which I regretted giving it to him,

But everything was out of love

Though I regretted a day after we had our first sex

I cried all time because I know it wasn't time to do so

My family are still suffering, why then should let a man touch me.

Well I learnt my lesson

The love grew stronger till the day he went back to Abuja

Attitude came from many places, I never bothered to ask him why he was giving me attitudes

All I know was that it was none of my business

A very important lesson to learn, in all your relationship never gives yourself out as a token of love and also remember blood oath doesn't work unless it was sealed by a native man and it was done in a shrine with a staff

Mine was just a road side oath which never worked for one day.