I sat up straight. “Fifty Shades is not really Leather or b**m. It’s a fantasy that straight men have about controlling women. Don’t get it confused.” “I thought it was written by a woman,” Kellen said, perplexed. “Yes, a married woman, to make it more palatable to the straight, vanilla world. It has done more harm to the leather community than good. Young people come in thinking they know what they’re doing but they don’t. It’s a lot more complex than just falling for someone and letting him control everything about you.” “I noticed they didn’t have a real contract,” Pat noted. I shook my head. “My first contract interview lasted several hours, and the contract was almost ten pages. Not all Leather relationships are like that, but when someone is really serious and has the knowledge a

