4. Which implement? Every artist needs to feel confident in his materials, and every spanker will have his favorite implement. But to get the best effect it’s good to take her preferences into account as well as your own. Some girls like leather (a belt, a tawse, a whip). Others like wooden paddles. It’s partly a matter of aesthetics (the texture, even the smell of the leather; the look and touch of the polished wooden hairbrush). But also there’s a big difference in how they feel, from the sting of the leather tawse to the thud of the paddle to the bite of the cane. Observe what has the most pleasing effect on her; pleasing to you and to her.
5. Self-control. More than once I’ve been asked, since you are such an enthusiastic spanker, do you ever worry you’ll get carried away and take thi
