Two things I find troublesome here. First is the way the argument moves without any distinctions or subtlety from violence (as in r**e) to coming on a woman’s face. Now I think that ejaculating on her face without asking or without her being prepared for it is extremely bad manners, to say the least. Is it violence? Women who have experienced real violence at the hands of men (savage beatings, broken bones) might find that laughable. There’s also an assumption (whether cleverly or negligently, the point is not actually argued through) that coming on a woman’s face is inherently nasty, something that men only do because they have seen it in porn, and therefore feel they have a license to degrade women, and that it is something that no woman could want.
That’s not my experience. I’m not say
