I’d like to be quite clear about this. A good Dom won’t make her feel that her needs are unimportant or irrelevant to him. It’s not about not bothering him. He won’t make her think she can’t express how she feels. Indeed, it’s essential that he knows this. But while she can tell him what her needs are, she does not put pressure on him to meet them. She waits until such time as he sees fit to respond to them.
I recognize that this can be a very hard lesson to learn. If it is a long-distance relationship, knowing that he cannot see you for days, for weeks, even for months, is painful. He wants to know how much you miss him, and you should tell him. But a good submissive should avoid all the wiles and stratagems that she might be tempted to employ in order to bring forward the longed-for enc
