On occasion I forbid not only orgasms but any form of touching for pleasure. Many a submissive woman loves to slip a hand between her legs from time to time, even sliding a couple of fingers inside her knickers and playing with herself, often absent-mindedly, only half aware she is even doing it. Often they say it’s for comfort more than s****l stimulation. (Oh, really?) And that it’s more cruel to be deprived of this satisfaction than it is to be denied orgasms. Well, good. The Dom always likes to acquire another weapon for his armory. While she’s under such restriction, I might nonetheless order her to touch, in a more focused way. I enjoy having her masturbate to the very brink of orgasm and then stop. I think there’s no better form of discipline that ratcheting up the level of desire

