When I slap I like to grip her hair, really hard, and twist it a bit to raise her face upwards. Women have a different relationship to their hair than men. It’s much more directly connected to their sexuality, to their feelings about their body and about its desirability. If you twist her hair, she’s likely to feel powerfully under your control, in a very s****l way, so it adds greatly to the experience of being slapped. But there’s a practical reason for doing this too. I’ve been asked if there is a safe way of face-slapping. I’d suggest that getting a firm grip on her hair helps to hold her really still. This is important, because you want to slap in the right place. Accuracy is essential. Don’t slap her mouth (it really hurts to have your lips banged against your teeth), and don’t slap
