What if the girl is being given away to a man who doesn’t understand the nature of her submission? Would this make the experience humiliating for them, because they can’t console themselves with the thought that the other guy who is f*****g them respects their reasons for being used in this way? As far as he is concerned, she may be just a cheap little tramp. At least, there’s a real chance that’s what he thinks of her, and this is therefore doubly humiliating.
It’s a dangerous game that’s being played here. I know from experience the girl is walking a knife-edge between engaging in a truly exciting manner with her deepest fantasies, and actually feeling at some point that she is indeed the cheap little tramp conventional morality would judge her to be. The Dom needs to work hard to reinf
