However, it’s my belief that such fears of disappointing him are usually groundless. If a Dom is understanding and sensitive he will know that it’s not objectively about how many strokes you get to deliver, with what degree of strength. It’s about how many are good for this particular girl. If you can take a girl right up to her limit, and even persuade her to go a little bit beyond what she thinks her limit is, then you have achieved exactly what you wanted. The fact that another girl could take more is irrelevant, because the effect in the girl’s head is the same: she’s submitted to you totally, she’s given you her all.
But there’s one more worry that girls have, and it’s one that is real enough, even though a submissive girl might wonder if it’s right for her to think this way, since i
