Broken Chain

Chapter 2: Three years of helper

I was 19 when I learned that “one day” was a lie men told girls who couldn’t afford to leave.

The first time Mandla called me “helper” was at a braai in Kanyamazane. His friends were laughing, meat sizzling, beer sweating in cooler boxes.

“Mandla, is this your new girl?” his friend Sbu asked. Sbu had gold teeth and eyes that looked at me too long.

Mandla didn’t even look at me. He was busy turning wors on the fire. “Nah, this is my helper. She makes good tea.”

Helper. Not girlfriend. Not love. Helper.

I was holding a plate of pap he’d asked me to dish. My fingers tightened around the edge until plastic cut into my palm. But I smiled. Because helper girls didn’t cry. Helper girls said, “You’re welcome.”

“That’s all she is?” Sbu’s eyes slid down my dusty pink crop top. The Mr Price one. My only nice thing.

“Yep,” Mandla said. “Don’t get ideas, sisi.”

Everyone laughed. I laughed too. Loudest of all. Because if I didn’t, I’d have to admit that the R50 he gave me for taxi felt like payment, not love.

That was the day I started counting.

Not bread yet. Just days. Days he texted back. Days he said my name instead of “hey.” Days he didn’t drive past my street without stopping.

The number never got high.

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My aunt Nora’s house had rules.

Rule 1: You wake at 5am.

Rule 2: You count bread slices. 2 each. No more.

Rule 3: You don’t bring “men problems” to her table.

“Nonhlanhla,” she’d say every morning, knife hovering over the loaf. “Life is hard. You must learn.”

I learned. I learned to make 2 slices feel like enough. I learned to smile when my stomach growled at 3pm. I learned that R2,500 could be a whole month’s food if you were careful.

But I never learned how to stop loving Mandla.

He met me at a taxi rank. I was 19, crying because aunt Nora said I ate too much. He was 25, driving a second-hand Polo, gold chain flashing. He said I had “sad eyes.” He bought me a Stoney and said, “Don’t cry, sisi. One day I’ll buy you the whole factory.”

One day.

He never did. But he did ask me to wait in his car while he went into clubs. He did ask me to lie to his mother: “He’s with me, Ma. We’re studying.” We weren’t studying. He was studying Amelia’s number on his phone.

I knew about Amelia from month two. He didn’t hide her. He just didn’t hide me either.

“You’re different,” he’d say, fingers in my hair while Amelia called his phone. “She’s for marriage. You’re for… peace.”

Peace. That’s what he called me when he wanted to forget that he couldn’t have kids. The doctors said it when we were 20. I held his hand in the hospital. I saw his face break. I promised him, “We’ll be okay.”

He said, “You’re the only one who stayed.”

I thought staying meant love.

I was wrong.

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Year one with Mandla: I washed his clothes. I cooked for him when his mother was angry. I borrowed R20 from aunt Nora to buy him airtime when he said his phone was dead.

Year two: I stopped asking if I was his girlfriend. I stopped when I heard him tell his cousin, “She’s clingy. But she’s useful.” Useful. Another word for helper.

Year three: I was 22 and still counting. Still waiting for “one day.” Still wearing the dusty pink crop top because Mr Price was too far and money was too short.

The night he gave me R2,500, I went home and counted my things.

One mattress.

One blanket.

One crop top.

One heart, broken.

That was all.

Aunt Nora knocked on my door at 10pm. No food on the plate.

“You’re quiet,” she said.

“Mandla ended things,” I said. My voice sounded like someone else’s. Like a helper reporting to her boss.

She sighed. “Men will be men. You must move on. There are other boys.”

Other boys. Like Marcus.

I hadn’t thought of Marcus in years. He was the boy from the next street. 8 years old with scraped knees and a blue bicycle. He held my bike when I was 8 and scared. “I got you,” he said. I believed him then.

Mandla said “I got you” too. But Mandla let go.

I pulled the dusty pink crop top from under my mattress. I pressed it to my face. It smelled like cheap perfume and old dreams.

R2,500. That’s what three years of “peace” cost.

I should have hated him. But hate takes energy. And I was tired. Tired of counting. Tired of waiting. Tired of being useful.

I lay down on the mattress. No blanket tonight. I didn’t deserve warmth.

Before I slept, my phone buzzed. Unknown number.

I almost answered. Old habit. Maybe it was Mandla. Maybe he changed his mind. Maybe “one day” was today.

But I didn’t pick up.

I turned the phone face down. For the first time, I chose silence over him.

Outside, wind pushed against the window. Like something trying to get in.

Or like something telling me to get out.

I closed my eyes.

Three years as a helper were over.

Tomorrow, I would learn how to be nothing.

And from nothing… you could build anything.