"I am so thankful for you loving my little girl. May your married life be filled with never fading, never ending, never restrained love and support for each other. " Then she turned to look at her great granddaughter. "Diane, my child, I know you have not had the best environment to grow up with and you have not seen much of how a husband and a wife should be from your mom and dad's experiences but you have seen a few years of me and your granddad as couple, may you learn to respect each other and live in harmony.” Then she held both their hands inside her palms with John’s hand atop Diane’s while her right palm up at the bottom of their hands and left palm down on top. Then she continued speaking looking at their hands in front of her. “Give before you expect to receive anything. May it

