When it came time to divide the marital assets, Neil voluntarily handed over the household financial statements from the past year. My lawyer told me about it later. That whole year, the mortgage was $8,600 a month. HOA fees, utilities, gas, groceries, his health insurance premiums, and even the transportation costs for his so-called interviews came almost entirely out of my salary. In the second month of his fake unemployment, I sold the necklace I'd bought when we got married. In the fourth month, I canceled my gym membership. In the sixth month, I gave up the company's leadership program and used the registration fee to cover his health insurance premiums. In the eighth month, I turned down a job that would have doubled my salary, because it required long-term business travel. I'd t

