I tape the last of the pink and blue streamers to the wall and step back to admire my work. Ash and Kayla’s rather muted living room has been transformed into an explosion of pastel pinks and blues for today’s gender reveal party. It’s not easy to pull off an Autumn themed party with pale pink and baby blue, but I think I did a pretty good job. I’d made several scarecrows using baby and toddler sized clothing that was gender neutral, that they could save for when their little addition gets bigger. The crepe streamers were everywhere- I may have overdone it with those a little, I admit. But my favorite is the black crows I’d picked up in an after-Halloween sale. I’d glued these, admittedly, slightly creepy plastic babies on their backs and made harnesses and reins out of silver ribbon so it

