CHAPTER 12
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Chapter 12
Doctor Vishal told the Real Story in the Doctor’s Conference:
While speaking in the Doctors’ Conference, Doctor Vishal made known to all about the real story that happened at Russia. Doctor Vishal gave small quote:
Quote –
“Death is a depressingly inevitable consequence of life, but now scientists believe they may have found some light at the end of the tunnel. The largest ever medical study into near-death and out-of-body experiences has discovered that some awareness may continue even after the brain has shut down completely.”
–Unquote
Doctor Vishal, in his discussion and conference has spelled-out the following:
Back from the Dead:
Some times and on some occasions and at some Countries/places, it happens really in few cases, that dead persons come alive and participate in functions.
Quote-
“A Russian who was declared dead from drinking too much Vodka, returned from the dead to join in on the party being conducted in his memory. His friends panicked and called the Police after he “partied too hard”. He was taken in an ambulance to the nearest hospital but declared dead on arrival. The guards at the morgue were shocked when he had a “miraculous awakening” and then returned to continue partying, this time in the celebration of his rebirth” – Unquote
Full details of this incident are as follows, explained Doctor Vishal to the invitees of the Conference. This incident took place in Russia:
One Russian celebrated his birthday function at one Star Hotel. All friends were invited. In that party, all types of drinks including vodka, whisky, gin, brandy, rum etc. were served and all the friends were asked to enjoy from morning to night. No time limit was set. The Russian and his friends booked Hotel Rooms, and right from morning to midnight, drink, eat, dance, enjoy music etc. all times, as per one’s wish. All the friends used to drink what they want up to deep neck.
On first day
This Russian had too much of drink and suddenly died during the course of drink party. The Doctor from nearby Hotel called for, for medical check-up and treatment to this Russian. Everybody felt sad about this incident, which took place on the very first day. Doctor, after medical check-up, declared that this person is dead. Few of family members took this Russian to the nearest hospital. But, the party was going on in full swing. Most of the partying friends were unaware of this incident because they were in their own world with too much of drinks and high state of condition. At the Hospital also, the Doctors after verifying the complete body check-up came to conclusion that this man was brought ‘dead’.
With the request of this dead man’s relatives, the ‘dead body’ was kept in the mortuary of the hospital. The news spread to his friends at the Hotel where the party was going on. Some of friends got disturbed and some friends were not able to understand what happened to the hosting friend. Some friends were very high on alcohol consumption.
The Russian family members decided that the party at the Hotel to continue, as per original schedule i.e., for one complete week. This was in memory of the departed Russian, as Soul to rest in peace, the party since continued. All friends were in one way felt very happy about this decision. Every guest was happy. All others are too good in sober condition. There was no control for drinks. Totally all the invitees/friends were drinking, dining, eating, dancing, all things are going on at the partying hotel.
All people took self-decisions to enjoy the entire week. Because, everything was free. No need To pay any money to anybody. The entire hotel bill including that of rooms were at the cost of the hosting Russian family. Each invitee was a millionaire. Each friend was moneyed person. Everybody was a big business shot. Each day, drink, drink and drink. Nobody ask them or nobody to question them. As a mark of respect, all the friends maintained two minutes silence as a mark of respect to the departed Soul. All people again confirmed to continue this party, as usual.
All people are in full condition. Few people are eating. Few people are dancing. There was also a cabaret dance on the stage, which was organized by the Hotel Management. Most of the friends were smoking too. Few people were playing cards. All were enjoying as per their own wish.
Next Day Morning,
The Russian whose dead body at mortuary, woke-up in the presence of mortuary staff and guards, stood-up and came back to the Hotel where the party was going on. The Hospital security guards and staff became aghast, ‘as the dead man from the mortuary became alive’. This news became viral in the hospital. All the relatives of this Russian were surprised. Some relatives even feared for this incident. They thought that how a dead man become alive and attend the party which he was hosting to his friends. Even the Russian friends were afraid of his coming back to the hotel.
The party at the Hotel continued for the entire week. In this party, the Russian who died and returned back to Hotel for partying with friends, enjoyed a lot and lot with all types of drinks, eating, dining, dancing and there was not control of people during the party.
On the last day of the party at Hotel, this Russian was in high state of in-abbreviated condition and at midnight 1200 hours, he fell and died, as everybody witnessed this incident. This information and incident was informed to Police and in Ambulance, the dead Russian was taken to the same hospital, where he was taken earlier a week ago. Hospital Doctors, Nurses and other staff feared for this, as once this Russian was declared dead and again, he was brought in Ambulance after becoming second time dead. After testing and verifying th ‘Russian Body’, he was declared as’ brought dead’ and was accordingly issued with “Death Certificate”. This Russian dead body was handed over to his relatives. The dead body taken direct to his home. At Hotel, friends were in too much in-abbreviated condition. Friends’ brain was not working. They were in high condition. After the party was over, friends could know that the host “Russian was really dead. People and friends felt sorry for this. But, condolence meetings were conducted and prayed for the dead man’s Soul be rest in peace.
The Doctor Vishal Tells the following:
ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE
The Ego and its negative Effects (777) an attitude of gratitude. (A story from the Upanishads) Once upon a time the Aryavarta in India was ruled by a powerful emperor. The emperor was basically a good man but the only problem with him was he was highly egoistic. He always used to boast his greatness in each and everything and some of the good people were not happy with this negative quality of the emperor. Hence they all went to Yajnyavalkya Maharshi and requested him to reform their emperor. Accordingly Yajnyavalkya Maharshi had visited the court of this emperor and he was very well received by the emperor and he said, “Maharshi! I am very happy to see you here in my court and I am sure you will be happy to notice the richness of this very big hall, golden throne and my people are very happy and comfortable. I request you to join me for lunch tomorrow.” After some time the Maharshi went back to rest and next day he visited the great emperor.
The emperor received the Maharshi and his followers and requested them to be seated. Then the emperor said, “Maharshi, I am very happy that you have personally come to visit my court and also my home (palace). You might have seen the seat on which you are sitting is made of pure gold and studded with costly diamonds and even my throne is also made up of pure gold and studded with diamonds which are very expensive.”Maharshi, “you also might have seen this big house of mine and see the pillars; they are also gold coated and studded with very precious stones. Now I invite you to have food with me.” Maharshi, “Please sit on this golden seat, even my seat is also made up of pure gold and studded with precious stones.”
Like this every time he was mentioning that “mine”, “mine”, “mine” everything is mine. The king sat for lunch and requested Yajnyavalkya Maharshi also to start. After listening to the way the king remarked for everything the Maharshi said, “Oh! Great emperor!, “Oh! Rich emperor! I am a very poor Brahmin, I don’t own a home or a palace which is full of golden furniture. Mine is a humble, simple cottage made up of leaves and I do not have a golden throne. I only use the mats made of darbhas, a kind of dry grass, and I do not have golden plates and golden glasses instead I use banana leaf as a plate and ordinary a copper vessel to drink water. So today, I think, I am very fortunate to have these luxuries offered by you for which I am thankful to you.” But, “Oh great emperor! “Are you sure that the first morsel of food which you are going to eat will be reaching your mouth? He questioned. The emperor was surprised and shocked and said Maharshi, “What is this you are talking? The distance between the golden plate with the food and my mouth is not very far. I will be using my own hands to feed my own mouth. What is the problem?”
Then the Maharshi said, “Oh! Is it so?” O.k. Then start your lunch. The emperor had lot of delicious and varieties of food. He mixed everything he used pure ghee and butter. He made a very big and round ball of rice along with this delicacies and was about to eat, as the hand was about to reach the mouth suddenly a house fly has come and landed on the food. Immediately the emperor had thrown the food away.
Observing this, the Maharshi asked the emperor, “Why had he thrown that food? The emperor was surprised and asked Maharshi, “Did you not see the house fly landing on the food? How can I eat that food? That is why I had thrown it out.” The Maharshi replied, “Oh great emperor! You were sitting on your own golden seat, you were eating from your golden plate, your vegetables, your food. Everything is yours and when a house-fly had come which also belongs to you then what is the need for you to reject the food? You are telling everything is mine; everything is mine so I thought that even the house-fly also belongs to you. In that case what is the need for you to reject the food?”
Then the emperor got the message.
The Maharshi added. “You are using your own hands and you wanted to put the food in your own mouth. Oh great emperor! “The wish of the God is greater than yours. Your sankalpa, your desire is never greater than the intent, the wish of the God. Everything you own because of the grace of the almighty. It is not your greatness. That is the reason in life everyone should be having dedication and devotion to the God. Whatever you are doing and whatever you are eating you should always think of that almighty God who has provided all the riches to you.” When the God’s intent combines with your own intent then it will materialize the way you want.”
The emperor apologized profusely and afterwards he was completely a changed person. Then Yajnyavalkya blessed the emperor and he went off. Hence this kind of ego will always bring unhappiness and uncertainty in our life. We should always have the attitude of gratitude towards the people, towards the creation of God and to the God himself.
Dr. Vishal Tells another real story that took place at Singapore.
BRIDE’S AGONY
With this self-advocacy and self-consoling able to settle-down after some time Able to manage crucial moment & time.... read more
I knew it well
Things do not favor me
It was a life and death question
I hoped for good //
I was always praying the Almighty
To clinch the marriage issue
I like no untoward incidents
I was little bit apprehensive //
Doubted my ensuing in-laws
I was observing their psychology
Time was rolling out
I was in full control with deep thoughts //
I was looking at my wrist watch
Observing the Time & date
I was disappointed for few days
I thought for a while //
To swim in the Life Sea
To reach the Life Shore //
I like to swim in the Sea
To reach the Sea Shore //
I thought, never to give up
Hopes always live with hopes
I had a detailed discussion
I had exciting talk //
I was relieved from tension
I asked uncle
Sought for marriage alliance with Uncle’s son
I want to settle in life //
Run the family with peace of mind
Hubby has better principles in life
I recouped with heavy breath
Prepared for countdown days //
I made gate dash for clinching my issue
Observed bridegroom’s father carefully
He walked to the door
I knew, time was running out //
Suppressed the urge to check my watch
I took a deep breath
Started counting in reverse under my breath
Like, ten, nine, eight, seven, six to zero //
Though perturbed, kept my mind balanced
Came to the sense
Requested for a glass of water
Settled down for few seconds to ease tension //
My heavy breath has calmed down
Had sigh of relief
My inner sense told me to observe the wrist watch
Watching the psychology of boy’s parents //
The inner ‘sacred soul’ told me to speak very softly and politely
Prepared for any eventuality in this crucial issue
Consoling my heavy inner heart
Trying to cool down my brain //
I was able to pacify myself
Able to remember my friends telling me that –
After the storm, there is always calm
After the sunshine there are showers of rain //
With this self-advocacy and self-consoling
Able to settle-down after some time
Able to manage crucial moment & time
Urged Aunty and Uncle to perform this marriage soon //
Would be mother-in-law understood well
The agony of Bride was well received
Would be bride has been given good treatment
Well spoke by would be in-laws.//
Would be in-laws agreed in toto
The bride was given an assurance by in-laws
The engagement would be accepted
The Marriage would be performed soon.//
With this kind words of in-laws
The bride was happy
Bridegroom was also happy
Engagement and Marriage took place.//
Both the new couples Happy
Both the In-laws Happy
Oh the marriage day, invitee blessings showered
New couples were very happy.//
Went on Honeymoon like twitter-shelter
'Young couples Twitter Shelter Home
Looks like Great Princes - Bonding with Loving Heart
Universal Beauty-Smarty in the World
Bonding Hands Forever, Life partners soon //
Later, Fly Away like Twitter, for Honeymoon Joy
Settle in Life for a Big Show Soon //
MY DARLING
The boy, with morals and life principles, hails from Gouda’s family and the girl hails from a Brahmin’s orthodox family. Both the boy and the girl are child-hood classmates and both have completed their Bachelor of Engineering Technical Courses and are In IT field. The boy used to come to girl’s house frequently while studying and has become a family known friendly boy. The Parents of the girl also used to encourage the boy, as a family friend. The girl has an elder brother who is a software engineer.
The girl and the boy settled at Singapore. The boy and the girl are working in different companies. Both are staying at one place at Singapore, leading the life though not married yet and very optimistic about getting married, one can say it as a very great quality in Right Mental Attitude.
The girl & the boy are earning handsome salary in an IT company at Singapore but the place of work is different.
The girl’s is always laughing and smiling. The girl maintains average health. Since the boy is well known to girl since college days, had a liking on the girl and decided to marry. Till such time they wanted to lead un-official married life, before getting married officially.
The girl’s mother is a housewife. The Father is a novelist. They have a small independent house at Hyderabad. The boy’s mother is a medical doctor and the father, a retired government officer.
The boy’s parents were unaware of this love affair. The parents of the girl knew about the love affair of their daughter and kept mum. But, both the boy and the girl decided to get married at one stage in India with the approval, acceptance, and concurrence from both the parents and would like to turn this love affair into an arranged marriage.
The boy’s parents never knew about their son’s friend-ship-turned-love affair with the boy’s child-hood girlfriend.
On one day, the boy’s parents wanted to perform their son’s marriage and were on the look-out for a good and qualified bride for their son. Doctor wife and husband informed their son, about the interest in performing the marriage. In the meantime, the girls parents were constrained to perform their daughter’s marriage at the earliest, knowing well about her daughter’s liking to get married to the boy of doctor’s family. There was lot of tension, commotion, anxiety and some sort of fear gripped in the minds of the girl’s parents regarding their daughter’s marriage. But, due to various reasons the girl’s parent’s alliance dialogue with the boy’s parents was not coming up.
On one fine day, the girl and the boy arrived Hyderabad on vacation. The girl briefed everything to her parents about the love affair with the boy. Boy also briefed everything to his parents, but the boy’s parents refused his affair. The boy told his parents that if at all he would marry, he will marry to the girl only, whom he is having a love affair and also told that he was leading the life with the girl at Singapore. The boy’s parents suddenly went to America on an urgent call from their daughter due to some problems of their daughter.
In the meantime, boy prepared to get engagement with the girl. Function Hall was booked and Invitations to various known people and relatives also posted. The girl’s parents were informed about the engagement date, venue and other details. Girl’s parents also informed various known people and relatives about the engagement of their daughter. The parents of the boy at USA telephoned just before a couple of days of engagement program, that the engagement be postponed to another three months and they are willing to perform the marriage of their son with whom he had an affair. Also, the boy was informed by their parents that they were willing to get the engagement and the marriage in great style after return from USA. As per the assurance the boy and the girl (would be couples), accepted and postponed the engagement.
After a couple of months the boy’s parents returned from USA to Hyderabad [India]. One fine day, on the invitation of the boy’s parents, the girl alone went to the house of the boy’s parents. The girl was asked to come inside the house and requested the girl to take her seat in one of the sofas. The girl was under tension. She was taking heavy breath. Also, the girl was little bit of nervous at that time. But, however, the girl was calm, quiet and deeply thinking with so many aspects. Her mind was filled with full of thoughts with unknown queries and answers.
The boy’s father was to enter the Hall and speak to the girl any time, as the girl was sitting in the sofa. The time has come. The boy’s father was on the way to the hall. The lover girl was with full of tension and she was thinking very deeply what to speak, how to speak, how to start the subject and in which fashion to start the dialogue. The inner sense and intuition of the girl was saying something good, that her request for marriage with the boy shall be honored.
Flash back story and the entire discussion proceedings were informed and narrated to her parents.
“QUOTE –
I (The girl) knew it well, if things do not favor me and it was a life & death question. I hoped for good. I was always praying the Almighty God, to clinch this marriage issue, without any obstacle leading to any untoward incidents. I was little bit apprehensive and was doubting my ensuing in-laws accept my marriage proposal. I was always observing them regarding their psychology. Time was running & rolling out and I was always looking at my watch observing the Time & date. I was disappointed for some days. I thought for a while that I have to ‘Swim in the Life Sea to reach the Life Shore than to swim in the Sea to reach the Sea Shore’. I was memorizing one quotation which I read in one of the books, “If Mahatma Gandhi was not insulted & not thrown out of the compartment of a Train with abuses, he would have not become a great leader. Similarly, you can see the life history of great people, all negative situations and negative events made them very strong. Then why you can’t? You can also become and achieve greater things in your life. Never give up hopes always live with hopes.”
“I had a detailed discussion followed with some exciting talk with doctor mother and her husband; I was relieved from some tension. I asked uncle, I am seeking for marriage arrangement with your son which is intra-Hindu religion marriage and not an inter-religion, inter-country or inter-continent marriage, for that you should be happy. It is only an inter-cast marriage. Moreover, I hail from Hindu Brahmin community and an orthodox with certain life principles. I will settle in life and run the family with peace of mind without troubling elders. Your son has better principles in life than anybody. I urged aunty & uncle to perform this marriage soon.”
But, I recouped immediately with heavy breath & heavy heart and prepared for countdown days like ten, nine, eight, seven, six up to zero. Then I made a straight gate dash for clinching my marriage issue.
I (the girl) observed him (bridegroom’s father) carefully as he walked to the door. I knew that time was running out but suppressed the urge to check my watch. I (the girl) took a deep breath and started counting in reverse under my breath - Ten, nine, eight, seven, six, five, four, three, and two, one and zero”. Though perturbed, I (the girl) kept my mind balanced, and came to the sense and after settling down psychologically, I (the girl) requested for a glass of water to settle down for few seconds and to ease the tension.
After some time my heavy breath has calmed down and had a little bit of sigh of relief. Though my inner sense, heart and soul told me to observe the wrist watch, which I was wearing, I (the girl) could not observe my watch for some time due to my deep concentration & observations at that particular moment. I (the girl) was watching the psychology and the mind wave-length of boy’s parents. The inner ‘sacred soul’ told me to speak very softly, politely with respect and my soul advised me to give the doctor mother and her husband high regards, though the outcome was positive or negative and I (the girl) was prepared to confront for any eventuality in this crucial issue. But, I was consoling my heavy inner heart. I was trying to cool down my brain, but due to heavy thoughts my brain nerves were heating up like a ‘cooker with nerves on the stove’. For some time I was able to pacify myself. At that time, I could be able to remember about one of my friends telling me at Singapore some months ago that – “After the storm, there is always calm. After the sunshine there are showers of rain”. With this self-advocacy and self-consoling, I was able to settle-down after some time and by the Grace of God. I was able to just manage that crucial and important moment & time.
UNQUOTE’’
The father of the boy slowly walked to the room, where the girl was sitting. The lover boy was present in the hall along with his doctor mother. For few minutes everybody kept silence and became dumb. Nobody was prepared to start speaking on the subject. Then the boy’s doctor mother, in a slow voice, asked the girl to speak out regarding the purpose of her coming to the house. Then slowly, the boy’s father asked the girl to speak out the reasons for her coming to their house. The boy gave small signal to the girl, to start speaking and given a hint to directly speak on the marriage subject. The girl spoke to the doctor mother and her husband very clearly all the aspects without any fear.
The girl very boldly, frankly, without any murmuring, had a detailed discussion with the boy’s parents about her willingness to marry the boy and told that they were leading the family life at Singapore and stated that they decided to get married, as early as possible, in India with the willingness from both the parents. Lot of discussion took place with the boy’s parents about this marriage matter. The girl also told the boy’s parents that if they do not agree to the marriage, she would never marry in her life. The girl told the boy’s parents that she will only marry the boy with the full consent of parents and do not want to ignore them.
The doctor’ familywere earlier given advices by her daughter who was at USA to agree to the brother’s marriage. The doctor mother and her husband patiently heard everything from the girl. The girl was offered with some snacks and cool drinks. The boy’s parents were very cool, calm and quiet and were very pleasant. They listened to the girl’s views and expressions keenly.
Finally, the boy’s parents agreed to get their son’s marriage with the girl. The same has been informed to girl’s parents over telephone and asked them to come over to their house for further dialogues in this matter. Everything was discussed by both the families and was given green signal to make arrangements for the Wedding Bells.
Everything was set for engagement. All the relatives, known friends and well-wishers were invited for the engagement at Hyderabad city. The engagement took place in great style. The newly and likely to wed couples were blessed by all the family members, friends, relatives etc. There were no misunderstandings of whatsoever in nature. Two months prior to the marriage date, the boy’s parents gave Rs. 20.00 Lakhs to the girl’s parents for constructing the first floor and for her purchases of gold, silver, and for garments. This amount was given as a gift from the boy’s parents. This is a great generosity from the boy’s parents.
The marriage day was fixed. Good number of people, relatives and friends were invited to the marriage. The newlywed couples were blessed by all the people present at the marriage hall. The reception was arranged after 3 days on a Sunday. Both the parents of the boy and the girl were very happy for this great marriage event.
The boy and girl married couple now, after spending their honeymoon in India, retuned back to their official duties at Singapore. Marriages are not made in Heaven but on the Earth. This was proved by this young couple. The girl’s parents were very happy and the boy’s parents were very happy. Both the families were in touch regularly over phone and visiting the homes regularly and exchanging the family matters.
Oh what a great marriage event and a very great successful inter-cast love affair turned marriage with the concurrence, approval and acceptance of both the parents. Everybody wished and blessed the couple, a VERY HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.
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- Writer
