Diary of an ordinary Girl

The last Question

A person outlook about his life means the way he precieve his life, he can either have positive or negative attitude toward life . This perception is based upon his undertanding and judgement of his awa. For a person who is more successful in his life ,either socially or materially ,he tends to have a positive outlook about life and similiary a person who face adversities in life, more or less he is pessimistic about life and that is the view i had about life till the moment when one question changed everthing

The moment which change my outlook about life is centred around one question which my late grandmother asked from me,

am i happy with my decision of choosing this career?and i should stay happy as it matters the most. In our society people judge your career on the basis of its future prospective both materially and socially.

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she asked me about my happiness, at that time when she herself was fighting the battle of life .it meant happiness was the only thing which descibe her view about life .That when i start to question myself have i ever experience real happiness and hopefulness ? the one which stay with you even at that time of your death .

I started to realize that although time is merciless still life is beautiful .It doesnot stop with a failure, it tends to move on and provide you with opportunities. It is upto to you how well you managed these opportunities and how you conquer the failures with hope of successful future .In past i relate my happiness with my success but now i realize my happiness resides inside me all the time in the form of hope ,i just need to discover it .I now tends to rejoy each momemt of my life. The loss of my grandmother was a great one but tend to help me to be more considerate towards my relations with others and to value them .

Now i can say i am more optimistic about life the reason was my grandmother question which lead

me to realize my relation with myself ,thus the more selfawarness i had, the more power i gain to control my problems and more inner satisfaction i enjoy today. I believe it doesnot matter how life changes you still be happy if you really want to be

As now i know true living is to be happy and hopeful and to spread this happiness and hopefulness in others life.