When he said they would come into our family issue as King makers, and home makers, calling us a king, and a queen indirectly was such an honor we would never forget or take for granted.
"It is a rare privilege and we would take it seriously, to recompense, and repay credibly, that is anybody coming into any family issue is coming in as a king, and a home maker, and the king's assignment means our community is safe, and secured, any community that has such a wise king is safe, and secured".
He said we should pray for the truth to come out, and think of how we would make peace, that justice choice prevail, and nobody would be cheated or feel cheated, they want us to understand ourselves to they have a very good focus, we should all endeavour to get it done, so that when we come back in two months our family would be like the peacefull families that we have learnt from, we are grown ups and adults we shouldn't give the king, and Mr. Matthew too much work or headache with our family issues to warrant them to them to reciprocate it.
"They laughed and took it seriously, they said our King is minister of enjoyment did you notice or take cognisance of how many times he mentioned go learn how to make peace, make peace, live in peace, and enjoy yourself, they laughed and said we had fun in the king's house, and palace".
The husband is the king, the wife is the queen, their children, relations, friends, well-wishers, and loved ones are their king and homemakers, said Mr. Matthew, we have heard that before his friends and listeners replied, You haven't heard it all, who told you? They asked.
"Have you heard of children, relations, well-wishers, and loved ones as King and homemakers, They laughed, We have heard it, you have said it to our hearing before, They said".
I, didn't say it all, if you have heard it before, what did you do with it? He asked, And what do you want us to do with it? They asked, You make sure all these people live with it in your home, apply it, abide by it, and see themselves as homemakers in your home, Ok sir we have heard you, you lead we follow, They said and laughed, Mr. Matthew and his Kingdom marriage.
"Marriage is one plus one equals one person from four parents. Four people gave birth to one person called a couple making it a total of five people, five persons, It is not four or five, it is three sir one of his friends said, they laughed he said True it is three persons".
The parents are one, homemakers should make sure one is one, and remains one, yes, I, think homemakers do, but it is left for the couple to work hard, and remain one, nobody would force two people to live as one, a queen, and a king knows that they hold a high profile position, which they won't want anything to taint It, they should be the first home makers.
"Mr. Matthew continued and his friends said truth, couples should be the first home makers in their home, and people would follow, he said Marriage is living with somebody, keeping the house clean, doing the house chores, working hard to provide for yourself, being thankful when you are provided for and complimented, remaining faithful, becoming a home maker, building and keeping home makers, but why do marriage pose a lot of problem".
Why is it that people can't just obey ordinary rules of life, and marriage? Is it hard to keep life, and marriage rules? People need to get rid of a lot of things from their lives before entering marriage. His friends said, You know, anything Mr. Matthew is doing, he does it with all seriousness, he works very hard to get it done, see how much he has been talking about marriage, ever since he got married, just to make sure his marriage works, he even changed it from an institutional marriage to a kingdom marriage.
"So we would join him in this kingdom marriage, making sure people obey the rules of life, and marriage, you see you don't need to over stress the need for people to join you, if they see, you are right they would join you. For you to get a man who pampers you like an egg, you should pamper yourself like an egg, pamper your brothers', Cousins', and Uncles' Wives like an egg, and your husband would reciprocate it, and his friends said, so which woman doesn't want to be pampered like an egg, all of them love to be pampered like an egg, but it is in doing the work".
Women should go, and do their work, do their best, and leave the rest of their reward, for God. Life has been made easy with an increase in science and technology equipment, and machines produced, so marriages should be made easy in essence.
"My wife and I have started working and praying towards becoming homemakers, and building homemakers for our home, his friends laughed, chuckled, cackled, and said So you have not been homemakers before? he said Have we ever wrecked somebody's home before, What sort of question is that? They all laughed. We are building our marriage business, our marriage is God's, and our business, not anybody's business, only for those who feel concerned that we allowed to feel so. Our marriage is our business, and it's God's business, and they all nodded their head, and laughed".
Let's have some refreshment Jemz one of Mr. Matthew's friends said, he brought out money and sponsored their refreshments. They are and were happy, glad, and joyful. We want to make sure we see everybody who comes close to us as a homemaker, anyone we have an open conversation with, should be a homemaker by the time, we treat them like this, they wouldn't want to come between us, it would no longer be do not listen to outsiders in your marriage but do not near Mr. and Mrs. Matthew's marriage, if you are not a home maker, that's it, get it.