She took care of his guests, like they were her guests, his family, relations like they were her brothers, and sisters, it was obvious she had not allowed any negative thing to clog her mind, Her friends came to her, and said, You are always doing good girl, good woman, for yourself and join us we are going to club this week, you join but she won't, and she didn't.
"She began to pursue such friends out of her life, and to keep good friends who won't go to the club but to the libraries and labs, all work and no play makes jack a dull boy, why are you being so serious with life, common be free with us, but by this time she have gone far with her new friends and won't give up to give in, she won't even listen to them let alone welcome them, she was full of experiences, she have seen a lot of people who listened to wrong advice, but didn't end well, so she resolved she wasn't going to listen to any wrong advice, she have seen people who didn't go to club, and were successful".
So she resolve to keep the best life, she did her best to be the best she could be, if somebody full of experiences like me, would make mistakes then I, shouldn't be full of experiences, I, would rather be a learner but I'm not these girls trying to entice me are learners, I, would make them know they are learners. Mrs. Matthew's old friends didn't know her so they took her for granted as somebody they could ruin her life by making her join unnecessary, and unhelpful things.
"She said maybe after club, they would bring out another high life gathering, she would join, so I, would start to introduce my own lifestyle to them, so that they would come and join me, she began to invite them, she started to invite them to church, and academic events".
They began to laugh and asked her o, So because we invited you to the club where we know, you started to invite us to numerous events, and places where you know, and warned her you better stop that, you take other things seriously but you don't take us seriously, don't we look serious, she laughed out, but said in her mind you look serious but you invite me to club.
"They told her come to the club, and you see big, rich, and wealthy men, who would spoil you, but she wasn't somebody you could easily convince, she told herself these kind of girls are hard to convince except they are tired of living a reckless life, but if they didn't give up, I, won't give up".
She started, and continued to tell them how she lives a risk free life, she doesn't jump from one man house to the other, sleeping around, and hiding from her husband to catch her like they do, they laughed and told her that all men cheat, she laughed, and told them that all men cheat on girls and women who are not hardworking.
"Any hardworking girl, or woman won't have the strength to cheat with a man on his husband, or wife. So all men doesn't cheat, few men doesn't cheat, and my man is one of them, they laughed and told her, the work we are into is what you are showing us, how to prevent men from cheating, so how many girls, and women are you going to make hardworking so that they don't cheat on their wives? Eh show us, we want to see, see my dear be realistic with life, stop being abstract, see life the way it is, and take it the way it is".
God is in heaven, if he wanted to stop it, he would stop it, he is the one who created it the way it is, so what are you trying to show us that you can and would stop what God didn't want to stop? Mrs. Matthew asked them, Who told you that God doesn't want to stop? They laughed, she laughed, and they asked her So why has he not stopped it, She told them he would stop it, they laughed out loud, and asked her For how long?
"When would he stop it? When would he stop it, when would he stop it, when would he stop it, when would he stop it, eh when, when? they laughed out loud, and she laughed and said when you stop it he would stop it, they laughed and said you are being sarcastic, you are amusing us, we don't want to stop it, since it us, man that now controls God, so he doesn't want to stop it like we said earlier on, She said sometimes God allows men to control him, you don't know he is a loving God".
They laughed, and said yes he is a loving God, that is why he didn't allow men to stone the woman caught in adultery, so any day your husband catches you cheating on him, God won't allow him to do anything to you, she laughed and asked all the spouses that their spouses have been doing something to, where was God, why did he allow them to do something to their spouses either leaving the marriage or beating up their spouses?
"They told her that just like that woman's own was different, so would her own be different and exceptional, her husband would not do anything to her, she laughed and told them, you are now tempting another beign, they told her no, it was that being that made those spouses do something to their spouses that they caught, maybe because they wanted to leave, quit, repent, and stop cheating on their spouses so that beign now made them to beat them or leave their marriages. Mrs. Matthew laughed, laughed, and said So you know the Bible like this?".