Seeing such beautiful, charming females (they were all hybrids) made me realize my fantasies, which I had never realized. I began to be interested in fantasies several years ago when I realized how much you could learn about the person you love by examining his or her fantasies. For it is pretty certain that fantasies do reflect one’s secret vision of ideal activity.
That doesn’t mean I think you should take your lover’s dreams literally (most fantasies feature highly exaggerated behavior), but you should become aware that buried in his or her favourite fantasy is a core of desire to experience a special psychological attitude or activity and the accompanying sensations.
You won’t really know your lover until you have unearth those hidden desires. You will not have achieve complete trust
