NUR Once we’re past the shock and the drama, everyone sits down to have a civil conversation. “So you’re Turkish?” Dad asks. Ahyan nods. “I’m from Istanbul, Sir,” I want to tell him to stop calling Dad, Sir but now is not the best time. I want to careful listen to this conversation because other than these two facts, I don’t know anything about him either. “What else?” Dad demands. “Do you live with your parents?” “Yes, Sir. I have four younger sisters and we all live together,” I want to see if he meant that as a joke but he looks very serious. Still, we all live together kind of felt like a jab. “What does your father do?” At this, Ahyan’s whole demeanor changes. I’m sure everybody in the room notices. The temperature falls by 10 degrees. Ahyan clears his throat. “He’s not . .

