Love Kush - Beginnin'

Ingrown Kid

A kid would be a kid & he's probably never going to grow up around kids. It's too main stream; you’ll only grow around the grownups. It could be your father, your elder kin or the elderlies who’s lap you peed over as a little baby, Those guardians of new little prince would be admiring the kid and admitting themselves dedicated to the care of kid in a super loving way, they're going to hold you & your fingers and allow you to walk and that's how a kid grows well, unless you're above 21, it ain't that the elders are going to hold your hand to walk, but that’s all the grown up kids may need sometimes.

Or maybe you get your answers from them when you keep on questioning about little things again and again, If you the kid as curious as I am; If you’re not, you might be seeking out some necessary guidance from within and won't grow without it. It's just the lack of ‘Bournvita’ in that kid that isn't making him curious, seen in a Bournvita’s TV commercial ad, Kajol Says "Even you're gonna have to struggle a little bit" while her kid got her questions that engrossed her. Remember,

“Curiosity keeps you young forever”

   Until & unless you're completely matured and calm to grow a kid; I recommend you, don't make one. Parenting ain't an easy job & it’s probably not for everyone. It's too difficult for a kid to reduce the amounts of curiosity in his head towards any of the questions that arise in his head, if any of that curiosity's left unanswered, It gets traumatic; I can tell. As a Kid, if he won't get to know the answers it would only stress that kid & it ain't maturity to stress one out.

 He needs an elder pal to hold on to him, every time; To let him know what's right, what's wrong, what’s happened, what had to be done etc.; In a brief way, that he gets to understand all of that with the morale of it. Hopefully, ain't no decision's should or would happen to be one sided or unethical in that elder’s company; They must heal you, reveal you, hold you, rectify you, to admire you when you do it right, while growing up in his footprints to finally be proud of him. Well that primarily is a father's responsibility, and when kids move out for further studies alone, which is also important as they have their own struggle and then they get to grow alone. Whilst 50% of parents part from their kids in their legal age to move out to study & stay alone after their higher secondary studies, cause some know that it's necessary for the kid to see everything on their own, deal with troubles that they bring to themselves when they are living alone and they have to be strong.

 With what was happening with me and my friends that live in my city migrated alone for their graduation see the real struggle, stress and loneliness, they see that heartbreaks, hope and hunger, and running out of money in middle of the month, then that struggle is pathetic when you won't have parents to hold your back. 

                    Suppose, if you get to know you are not able to pass 12th too easily, you took 3 years to pass your 12th exams and you failed in the first year college as well assume how ashamed you’d be to let your parents know about it. Suppose you’ve passed it all easily, but then now you got to work & you ain’t getting a job too, That gets exhausting too. Can you estimate the difficulty that would occur when you're just 21, you have to study and look towards work as well. Life that we’ve got is not to be spent all too easily. Stress it out as it strengthens you but know & be strong enough to deal with it and you'll learn to manage to be just more than happy, Life pushes you and then that's what grows you.

Sometimes you took three opportunities to pass a class, but you got nobody to hold you. You’ve got to face those disappointed faces all by yourself. After knowing our failure burnt us till we’re all in ashes, with the eyes of those who have hope from us. Letting parents know their kids aren’t failures, these are mere little setbacks as academics are not everything. Explaining that is no less than a challenge.

              And sometimes you face real trouble such as when you stay out of home to study but you couldn't get to reach to 12th boards final examination cause somehow you got too drunk last night as your girlfriend ditched you. That’s a real incident.

                                Another real happening; when you had already studied too much but you had a rough day yesterday working your ass off all day and today is your exam, you’re there but too tired and you ain't getting something from your head to write while you're still sleepy in the examination hall and trying to overcome your exasperation but you can’t, and you fail. Yes, that was me.

Failures in life make you successful because it gets you to see what's really guilty, what's disappointment, what hurting other one FEELS LIKE. Remember, each & every failure's A New Lesson.

‘Failing In Satisfying Your Family And Your Girlfriend Too?’ Well, welcome to the league.

                              That ingrown kid I’m telling you about is me, I’m the one who was just 14 and had work with my dad's Business, Had to attend school and tuitions and bike riding across the city. With a hold to my dad's business I was also a project to monetarily aid and add to family’s financial sake. And was it dumb to fail in my higher secondary exams when I had so much going on; And then in business, Was it all also under my responsibility? Yes. It’s been rough, tough & it still is difficult, what can I say it still really is. God bless me soon, before I surrender.

Well, I’ve been doing things all my life taking up responsibilities like I'm just not born, I'm sent for a special task, like an Avatar. I've been surrounded with people that were examples of biggest failures but never giving up kind of people, it's been a motivation for me to hold their back when they required me.

"Defeats only raise the taste of being victorious"