Third person pov.
There are words that are used to make others feel better, it goes something like "God puts you in situations that you can handle". Or "You aren't given something you can't handle" There's many ways to say the same thing, depending on who tells you. Such "comfort" words are mostly used as a way to give you perspective, or a way to say that you are not alone in it. That every problem has an origin outside of anyone, how else can you explain others having the same problems? Without knowing or paying attention we are imposed a way to see things by society. Conclusion that has been a result of sociological studies and books. Even with conclusions being drawn, are those words really comforting?
Moreover, why take the sadness? Making people think that suffering is a g
