chapter 19
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Ahmet pov:
Her eyes show love but she does not say it. She has surrendered to me. I have her for myself now. I know my ways were really bad and dangerous but I had to do it
She made me this way. Her innocent eyes. She smile her way of talking her way of laughing made me do all the things I did. Aarti has become my life. For her one smile I can do anything.
At first she started hating me. But now she is doing all the wife's duty.
Life has always took away my happiness. But this time I will not let aarti go. She has become my life. Now she is fixing my tie.
Aarti: ahmet will you come early today
Ahmet: why Angel anything important
Aarti: yes please come early home that's when you will know.
Ahmet: Umarım sevgimi anlamışsındır. Bana umudun aşkını gösterebilirsin. Hayatımın sonuna kadar bekleyeceksin. seni seviyorum
{ I hope you can understand my love for you. You can show me the love of hope. I will wait until the end of my life. I love you}
Aarti: you said something.
Ahmet: no nothing. Aarti don't make dinner we will have dinner out. Okay. Wear something casual.
Aarti just nodds and goes down stairs. Arslan enters the room
Arslan: sabah koruyıcısı{ morning boss}
Ahmet: Sabah arslan.Lütfen otelden ayırın .. Muhafızların Aarti'nin her saat ne yaptığını rapor etmesini istiyorum.
{ morning arslan.Please make a reservation at the hotel.. I want the Guards to report what Aarti is doing every hour.}
Arslan: Elbette patron. Efendim toplantılarınız 11'den başlayaca
{ Of course boss. Sir your meetings start at 11)
Ahemt: teşekkürler { thanks}.
I had breakfast and kissed aartis for head. I hope my life will change. With that thought I went to work. Aarti I love you.
When i entered my office i called my secertary to come in she is an indian old lady.
Radhika: yes sir how can i help you
Ahmet: please sit i want to know the duties for an indian man in your country.
Radhika: all this is for aarti madam right.
Ahmet: yes its for her anty please help me she told the duties of indian wife yesterday but i want to know about indian husband.
Radhika:
DUTY Nº1: To fulfill her needs.
The husband must, according to his capacity, fulfill the primary needs of his spouse (to feed her, dress her, provide a shelter for her, physically etc.)
He must as far as possible use his own financial means for this.
« Work more, to give more…to the wife! »
DUTY N°2: To protect her.
The husband must protect his wife from any dangers!
Whether they may be from his own violence (physical or psychological), or from external dangers.
A woman must feel secure in the presence of her husband… not when he is absent.
DUTY N°3: To be patient with her.
The husband must patiently accept the shortcomings of his spouse.
If he sees something in her that he dislikes, he must let her know TACTFULLY.
If one of her short-comings is persistent, he must keep in mind the numerous qualities which he does appreciate in her.
In any case, a husband cannot hate his wife, as she is first and foremost a believer.
DUTY n°4 : To teach her.
The husband must teach his wife the basics of religious observance.
If he cannot do so himself, he must make sure that she has the means she needs to learn.
He must never look at his wife as a “rival”, but rather as an ally with whom to make progress together!
This is all the more important given that this learning is essential for the future education of their children.
DUTY N°5 : To instruct her to do good.
The husband must instruct his wife to be regular in her religious practice.
He must also encourage her to carry out good deeds and to keep her behaviour honourable.
DUTY N°6 : To be authoritative.
The husband must protect his spouse from what is wrongful (such as gossip, laziness, etc).
He must know how to be firm when faced with behaviour that could undermine their life as a couple.
DUTY N°7 : To be available for her.
A man must make himself available to accompany his wife when she wants to go out.
He must, for example, allow her to visit her parents, to visit her neighbours or to pray at the mosque.
Being available also means to devote one’s attention to one’s wife…
DUTY N°8 : To behave himself well towards her.
The husband must talk in the best of ways with his wife. His words must be as gentle as honey, and his behaviour must be chivalrous.
There is nothing more reprehensible than the man who acts like a cat in front of his friends and like a lion in front of his family.
He must also help his wife shoulder her domestic responsibilities, if need be by grabbing the mop and bucket himself!
DUTY N°9 : To preserve her honour.
The husband must ABSOLUTELY avoid talking about private matters (concerning his wife) with his friends or family.
He must establish trust between himself and his wife if he wishes her to remain sincere towards him, and if he wishes to preserve her honour.
DUTY N°10 : To consult her view.
The husband must not be afraid or ashamed to regularly consult his wife in both day-to-day matters and important matters.
Not only can she be of great help and provide precious advice, but in consulting with her, you can show her how much you value her, and make her feel that she is very important to you.
My percious chapter about hindu wifes my main aim is to show how wifes duities are i meant no harm if they is a mistake please do correct me.as for duties for husband well lets say they are many but i have listed few why i am doing this is because some of us are married.
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