''''And once you have it, use eye contact as your barometer of his interest. There are more direct gazing when people like each other and less eye contact when they don't. And should you loose eye contact, chalk it up to his loss, not yours, and move on. '' But then you haven't succeeded, '''Gab goaded. '''When you go shopping, does every outfit you try on fit?''Gab asked, calmly making her point. '''True, you don't want to scare him off by staring. Practice eye control. Give him a nice gaze and genuine smile for, let's say, no more than two seconds long enough to let him know you're interested and then look away. Follow up with occasional peekaboo glance to keep him on the hook and eventually reel him in, ''Gab suggested while demonstrating her skills. '''Another great eye smile is to

