Be your own mirror

small circle

Having a limit circle of people in your life make life more easier because you remove all those toxic people who only know you when they in need of something I order for them to benefit. This circle helps you to have few enemies to deal with in future because sometimes helping a person now in future you become the most hurtfully enemies ever.

Limitation of your circle obviously you be called all sort of names because they no longer know what going on in your life they end up assuming and spreading all sorts of lies about your life . most of all having this circle gives peace and make the environment healthier .

I have learnt in the circle of people you smile with in your daily life some of them hurt your guards and in order for them to reveal that they have to find a person in the circle that also feels irritated about your presence then they collide an show you with action that they not found of you. this feeling an hatred was there long time it just that it needed to find each other to trigger...

this kind of people don't hate you because you did something to them no . what you need to understand about this kind of people is that they see good in you beyond the eyes . most of all what makes there relationship strong it you . if one of them talk good about you the other hater will make show they turn that great thing in to bad thing so that there other person don't see the greatness in you .

this people they will be good to you when they well know that they need something to you an the only way to get it is to fake a smile to you because they now very well you have a good helping heart . what I love about being good to everyone it payes always because god always have your back even though those people who look down on you after you did good to them he lift you up an blessed you with all the things that will irritate your haters keep them wandering how you make it in life. there life becomes stand still.

if you overcome something great they will never congratulate you. If you lost something they will gossip about it until you hear them how stupid you are.

best advice...

keep doing good to them, do not allow anyone change you continue doing great it will pay one day. find strength on how to leave with them, most of all give them respect and don't give them a chance to speak their heart because they got lot to say it just that they dont know were to start.