Be your own mirror

stability and pain

Life is hard when you have stability judgement. really not easy at all even though you can complain to people who are close too in your life that you are financially struggling no one believes you. it's like you always afford everything in life.

You end up running away from asking help to people who are the one you are supposed to ask for help too. The funny part is that they are always asking for help from you but immediately you ask them for help then they look at you in a funny way. It's like you are putting them to the test while you are really in need of their help.

As human beings we must not judge people thinking they have it all until you wear their shoe they are wearing .

if you can look with the deeper eye growing up is full of test that goes along with pain after pain. lot of challenges are always coming in your way . sometimes we say pain make us stronger but when you in that moment you don't see strength at all . I have learnt something through my years of challenges that if I can fall asleep I wake up with lesser pain that before going to sleep . actually sleep easy everything, because the brain shuts down for a few hours and restarts again with a little bit of strength to go on.

Life doesn't care how good you are or bad it keeps happening no matter what. most funniest thing is that even though you can have a person to share your pain with you are the one who always feels that pain no one else. until it becomes easy and the pain vanished.

Difficult session are trails gift from god in order to receive a gift you go through trails in life and they not funny. If you are weak they gonna break you and if you strong they gonna build you up. If you can have a discussion with yourself that trails always reveals who is with you for you and who is with you for gains because there are people we have in our lives who love us when all is well immediately you in count problems some people start to back down and disappear. Only those who are into you for life will give you hope and support until you gain strength and find your feet again.

Pain sometimes will teach you lots of things like how to breathe in pain, sleep, smile, react and think while you are in pain. I myself use music to ease the pain and sleep makes me feel better. I don't judge but I don't use alcohol because when you run to it . it becomes a habit that will end up creating more problems for myself. I saw it through my mother it didn't add value in her life it took a lot of beauty, surviving without alcohol and most often kids suffered silence looking at the mother getting lost and lost it not nice to experience such.

As parents however we react the most suffering people are the kids because they witness everything. Let's not let pain take over our lives.