"What's going on mom? Are you okay? You are scaring me."- I ask my mother pushing my breakfast to the side loosing my appetite. Xander stopped eating and is now staring at me mothing to put the phone on speaker, and I did just that. "I need you to um, help me with something that is very important. Is kind of a life or death situation right now."- she says. "Mom just tell me right now what is going on"- I tell her a little to forcefully. To be honest me and my mom are not like most mother and daughters, we don't have that type of relationship that I wish we had. We barely talk and she is the kind of woman that compromise anything and anybody to get her way. "Well you see I need you to lend me some cash." - of course she does. "I was drinking in a bar with some friends and friends of fri

