Chapter 22-02 "That's another reason that I'm not going to punish you here. There will be a variety of punishments, and which one I use will depend on what you did. But, each one will need to be discussed before they're put into action. I threatened to s***k you before but I would never do that to you unless it had been first discussed and you had agreed to. If, after we've discussed it, you think that you would be okay with s******g as a punishment, then it will be added to the list. If you agree to a punishment but find afterwards that you are uncomfortable with it, it can be revaluated and changed." I didn't know how to respond. I felt overwhelmed. "Everything we do has to be consensual. I need for us to be able to trust one another. I need to know how you feel about things, okay?"

