LAWS OF SKILLS. (Its All About Youths Progress And Development)

LAWS OF SKILLS EPISODE 8

GIVE YOUR ABILITY A RESPONSIBILITY

Give your ability a responsibility because it's not easy to be responsible, take action today, Proscastination is dangerous, it's foolishness to be shameful of what is gainfully, Always put your ability a positive responsibility, change your mind from bad or negative attitude to positive impaction.

Always refused to give your problems attention, take action with your crazy ideas, because the crazy ideas you think that it's useless in Africa is the one someone somewhere in European use to make cool cash , I am a Lion, if you are sheep be a sheep but mind you I am a loin because lion didn't fear any animal in the jungle. I am for real action not for Pity.

When you are in tight corners always Create discomfort for yourself and God will make away for you, sitting down ordinary, God will not step into your world. But when you take action, He will always meet you at point of your needs. It's easy to pending negativity that to do good things, you can't get an answer from Google search or chrome ordinary but you have to research google to get your answer, always get what you want in life and refused to be idle in life. Get your hand dirty, dirty is fat

I sturded Accountancy from Ogun State Polytechnic but my best in communication skills to impact the youthful age and upcoming generation, but today I have being getting small recognition in the world because my hand can reach anywhere in the world.

Storm will come and go, it a must when storm come it has date of expired, that will lead to impactive relationship to another active one. Remember one things leads to another. York's is hard to break but you have to break it off to achieve our impact in life. Good things is not easy to achieve but you have to instaint about it to get your results in life. If you want anything in this world please do communicate it, the one you don't want refused to communicate it. Remember that everything started from communication. Communication is interloculus. Look for those who has more ideas than you asked them question and you will get likely answer. Look for a mentor around you about life, if you don't get all the answers then it's will open your ideas from another angle that you don't think off. The right pattern you choose determine your eligibility result in life.

If you engaged in easy things your life will be hard but if you engaged in hard things your life will be easy. Time and target is all what you needs to achieve, Remember that men of vision is a mad man because everyone will not understand him.

Don't mistake movement with process because it's different stages, success don't come from what you do occasionally but it's come in what you do daily and it's will give you better life and better future. What you think is what you will become, what you feel will be attracted to your life. Remember that what your immerging is what you will create.

Always be positive, face it nobody owes you anything, what you achieve or fail to achieve is directly related to what you do or fail to do . The rain of your blessings is very close to you. And it will rain sooner or very soon. Always learn, the more you learn is equal the more you earn. Read hard passed Easley.

No investment no profits.

When you love the game play around is not matter, their is nothing powerful as make up your mind. No matter where you live background, the only people who will thrives in the future are those who think like an entertprenoue.

Success is not always what you see , it's all what you do to succeess, remember that one million excuses will not give you a credit alert but a debit regret in life. Services to man leads to greatness.

Always trying to position yourself for global opportunity and standup with it , it's not easy to achieve in life but with smart work, your hard work, patient and endurance you will gain it. Don't always compair your life that in chapter one to the person in chapter twenty, if their no up and down in your life it's meant your are dead .

Quit people are usually talkertive around right people. The open minded people and true people that says the Truth are the enemy of the society and community. Always be good to people in life but waste no time to proving it.

Don't call me luck if when you are sleeping while am working, work don't kill, but enlarged your experience, never stop searching for information and knowledge. Don't give up because it's cancelled, Remember that succeess is hard but it's worth it at the end of the day.

You will lose money

You will lose people or friends

You will double yourself

You will think that you are crazy.

Your family member will not find you again untill when you breakthrough in life and you will become their family members.

People will discouraged you but don't be shameful and discouraged, you will crying and fail Alot bur one day you will celebrate your achievement. It's will be uncomfortable but it will worth it's 100%

WHAT YOU NEEDS TO DO TO BE A SUCCESS.

✓ Attend technical school

✓ learn trade

✓ Get quality education

✓ Get elderly advice

✓ Refused bad character

✓ Communication is the key

✓ Search for solution

✓ Hard working and at time works Smart.

✓ Use your ideas or still ideas from your friend

✓ Learn everything that learnable

✓ Thinks like rich and refused to think like poor person because what you see is what you get.

✓ Refused to give attention to your problems

✓ Surmount courage, its not easy to achieve but try hard .

7 TRAITS TO BECOME A RESPECTED PERSON.

1. Never let anyone hear you complain. Your feelings are irrelevant to others, do what needs to be done with a smile on your face.

2. Act with irrational self-belief. It doesn't matter if others say you can't , since you know you can. Ignore their opinions, you can do anything.

3. Admit when you are wrong. You don't know everything. Own up to your mistakes as quickly as possible as it's the fastest way for you to learn.

4. Progress is made through iteration. If you claim you're going to do something, hold yourself responsible. Your reputation is your sole asset.

5. Control your emotions. Your emotions cloud your judgment. People will look to you for guidance and like's leadership. Don't react , be decisive.

6. Meaningful influence. Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs, and lead them.

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SOME LESSONS ON FINANCES

1. Must have EMERGENCY FUND - enough for 6 months of expenses/current lifestyle.

2. SAVE MONEY and MONEY WILL SAVE YOU. Don't save what is left after spending. Only spend what is left after saving.

3. Best to have ZERO DEBT, if you can't pay cash, you CAN'T AFFORD it, nothing beats PEACE OF MIND.

4. Avoid unnecessary spending, forget sale price, everything is 100% off when you don't buy it. Don't waste your money on things that you don't need, even if they are cheap. EVERY PESO COUNTS!

5. Learn to BUDGET - it is telling your money where to go instead of wondering where it went!

6. If we buy things that we don't need, we will have to SELL THINGS THAT WE NEED.

7. PRETENDING TO BE RICH can make us poor. Must learn to live BELOW MEANS. Don't go broke trying to look rich.

ACT YOUR WAGE.

8. MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING, but we cannot deny the fact that we NEED money for our FAMILY.

9. Always have a BACK-UP PLAN for life's uncertainties.

Start having your personal LIFE INSURANCE with INVESTMENT.

10. Let's break the TOXIC FAMILY CULTURE about

FINANCES. Your children is not your retirement fund, and your parents is not your emergency fund.

AS YOU GROW OLDER

As you grow older, some things change in you. You stop going after just fun and excitement, and you start pursuing peace and calm.

You stop over extending yourself for people. You stop letting people show you repeatedly that they don't want you.

If they reject or demean you once, you leave them alone.

You don't start a back-and-forth.

You don't over explain yourself.

You don't seek closure.

You don't cause a scene.

You simply clear from the scene.

They will realize what they lost when they can not find someone like you in anyone else.

When you know you're gold, you don't beg to be accepted.

You simply shine on your way until you find those who know your value.

Do you know how many people there are today who are being broken down just because they insist on staying in places they're not valued?

You're not one of them.

You know who you are, and those who don't see your worth are not your assignment.

You're not convincing anyone to treat you right anymore.

Instead, you're spending that energy to get better and get together with your kind.

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF 💕

1...Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

2... Stop begging.

3...Stop saying more than necessary.

4...When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.

5...Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.

6...Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.

7...Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.

8... Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

9...Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

10... Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.

11... Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals

12...Respect your time.

13... Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.

14... Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.

15... Be scarce sometimes.

16...Be a giver more than a receiver.

17...Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.

18...Treat people exactly the way you want to be treated.

19... Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.

20...Be good at what you do.

CHOOSING PEACE OVER TOXICITY

• Walk away from people who put you down.

• Walk away from fights that will never be resolved.

• Walk away from trying to please people who will never see your worth.

• Walk away from the doubts that cloud your mind.

• Walk away from habits that hold you back.

• Walk away from places that drain your energy.

• Walk away from regrets that keep you stuck in the past.

• Walk away from the fear of taking risks.

• Walk away from the need for constant validation.

The more you walk away from things that poison your soul, the healthier you will be.

REMEMBER THAT:

A person can not commit to you if they're not committed to themselves. Their healing. Their internal stability. Their growth.

The value one creates through improving themselves and showing up the world as their best self will naturally flow into their relationships.

A person can not meet you any deeper than they're meeting themselves.

A person who is unhappy with their life can not be happy with you.

Someone who is blind to their growth will never appreciate yours.

When you become better, they'll feel diminished and become opposed to it.

When you become more confident and aware of the games people play, they will say you're being influenced by others.

When you become inspired and you dream of bigger things or set larger goals, they will say you're becoming restless.

In short, you can not be happy with a settler when you're a traveller of life.

If you're on a journey of self realization and growing to your highest version is one of your goals, stop fooling around with people who are not conscious about that.

They will force you to either stop growing and stay with them or leave them to continue growing.

THE 10 STEPS TO BE POOR AND STAY POOR!

1- Sleep until you snore :

Never wake up early. Watch Netflix and zap channels until you're tired. Spend your days on f*******:, t****k insulting people who have already succeeded in life and who don't know you.

2) Despise small jobs:

Wait forever for the job of your dreams, even if it means stagnating in a job that doesn't make you progress.

3- Wait for help from the State:

Don't undertake anything without the help of the Head of State. Waiting is your job!

4- Refuse to take responsibility:

Blame others for your laziness. Blame the government, society, your loved ones, France... Say that everyone hates you.

5- Don't think to save:

Eat the seed. Don't save anything, even when you're a millionaire, live the good life so that people like your photos.

6- Spend without thinking:

Spend your time in big hotels, air-conditioned restaurants... Let shopping be your favorite hobby. 🤨

7- Spend more than you earn:

Borrow and don't pay back. Distribute your money to everyone.

8- Be fashionable 😅:

Impress your friends and colleagues with the latest trends.

9- Buy your iPhone 16 to prove to your friends that you can afford it:

Spend three years of salary on a phone instead of starting a business.

10- Don't train yourself: don't try to have the knowledge to refine your knowledge and be competitive on the market, sleep. Sleep well!

11 (Bonus): Don't give your children work (housework) saying they are dating. Hire cooks, housekeepers to do everything ....

Friends, please complete the list of lazy people .

THINK MULTIPLE STREAMS OF INCOME.

Salary Explained:

Salary is a specific amount of money that an employee is paid for work done.

Research has shown that the poorest group of people in the world are salary earners, next to beggars.

They live in a vicious cycle of poverty managed on 30 days. They continuously wait for it every month and any slight delay brings about heartbreaking anxiety, pressure, and disappointment.

Salary Is a short-term solution to a lifetime problem.

Salary alone cannot solve your money problems. You need multiple sources of income to balance.

The tax returns form contains about 11 income streams, salary is just one.

Don't live your life fishing with just one hook, there are many fishes in the ocean.

Salary Is the value someone has put on your effort.

How much do you value yourself?

You can't increase in value unless you VALUE yourself differently.

Life Is a tradeoff between time, effort and reward. To be rewarded more, you have to become more valuable.

Most salary earners end up poor in the long and short term.

Salary is the bribe they give you to forget your dreams.

Kindly DIGEST my words... It's time to wake-up!!!

Think investments today

Think multiple streams of income.

READ SHORT STORYLINE OF JOHN D ROCKEFELLER THE FIRST BILLIONIA IN THE WORLD.

John D. Rockefeller (July 8, 1839–May 23, 1937), the founder of Standard Oil, was once the richest man in the world. He was the world’s first billionaire. He amassed a net worth of at least $1 billion in 1916. When Rockefeller died in 1937, his net worth was estimated to be approximately $340 billion in today's dollars.

By the age of 25, he had one of the largest oil refineries in the United States. He was 31 when he became the world's largest oil refiner. At 38, he controlled 90% of the oil refined in the United States. At fifty, John was America's richest man. As a young man, every action, attitude, and connection was crafted to establish his wealth.

But at the age of 53, he fell unwell. His entire body became wracked with pain, and he lost all his hair. In total anguish, the world's lone millionaire could buy anything he wanted but could only eat soup and crackers.

According to an associate, "He couldn't sleep, wouldn't smile, and nothing in life meant anything to him". His personal, highly trained physicians indicated that he would die within the year. That year passed painfully slowly. As he approached death, he awoke one morning with the faint understanding that he would not be able to bring any of his fortune with him to the next world.

The man who could dominate the commercial world suddenly realised he had no control over his personal life. He informed his solicitors, accountants, and management that he intended to devote his assets to hospitals, research, and charity work. John D. Rockefeller started his foundation.

The Rockefeller Foundation financed Howard Florey and his colleague Norman Heatley's penicillin research in 1941. But arguably the most astounding aspect of Rockefeller's narrative is that when he began to give back a fraction of all he had gained, his body's chemistry changed dramatically, and he recovered.

He was expected to die at the age of 53, but he survived to reach 98 years old. Rockefeller learnt gratitude and returned the great bulk of his money. This made him whole. It's one thing to be healed. It is another to become fit. He was a devout Baptist who attended the Euclid Avenue Baptist Church in Cleveland, Ohio.

Before he died, he wrote in his diary: "God taught me that everything belongs to Him, and I am merely a conduit to carry out His will. My life has been one long, happy holiday since then; full of work and play, I let go of my worries along the road, and God was wonderful to me every day.

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10 LESSONS FROM THE BOOK 𝐑ULES OF 𝐖ORK

1. WALK YOUR TALK

Whenever you say something, live by it. Let people know you as a person who does what he says he will do. Always walk your talk.

2. HAVE A PLAN

No matter whats going on, always have a plan in life. Plan for the year. Plan for the next 2 years. Plan for the next 5 years. And plan for the next 20 years. Have a plan.

3. CARVE A NICHE FOR YOURSELF

Create a unique identity with what you do. Make sure you are known for doing something unique. Don’t get involved in what everyone is doing. Do something special.

4. LEARN FROM OTHERS MISTAKES

A clever man learns from his own mistakes, but a wise man learns from others’ mistakes. Learn from the mistakes of others. Study how others made errors and commit to avoiding them.

5. DEVELOP THE RIGHT ATTITUDE THAT WIN.

Be optimistic. Be positive. Share positivity with your colleagues, your friends and your acquaintance. The right attitude will attract you the right people to your life.

6. CULTIVATE A SMILE ATTITUDE

Smile when it’s getting tough. Smile when it’s hell. Smile no matter what.

And what sort of smile? Friendly, genuine—make sure it extends to your eyes—sincere, frank, honest, open, happy.

8. BE COOL

At work you should retain your cool at all times and, no matter what, never ever lose your dignity. If there’s an office costume party, you can laugh and joke with everyone else, but let them do the dressing up. You remain apart from all that office nonsense.

8. SPEAK WELL

You can keep your regional accent; that’s not the problem. Look at why we speak—it is to communicate, to convey information—rather than how we speak. Speaking well means getting information across clearly and effectively. It doesn’t matter how you speak, but it does matter that you speak clearly

9. STAY FOCUSED ON YOUR LONG TERM GOALS

You can’t afford to lose sight of your long-term goal for a second. For you there is no time off, no downtime, no loung-ing around time, no slipups, no mistakes, no accidental deviations from the script.

You have to become like a master criminal—they lead incredibly law-abiding lives because they can’t risk breaking a tiny law in case it draws attention to themselves and the really big crimes get revealed—and watch what you say and what you do.

10. KNOW YOURSELF—STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES

If you are going to be a winner, you have to be incredibly objective about yourself. A lot of people can’t do this; they can’t turn the spotlight on themselves objectively enough or brightly enough to see themselves as others see them. And it’s not just how others see us; it’s also how we see ourselves. We all carry a mental image of ourselves—what we look like and sound like, what makes us tick; how we work—but how realistic is this image?

MISTAKES IN LIFE:

Don't be afraid of make a mistake in life.

mistake are mend to happen, a mistake. will increase your experience before you because experts.A mistake will increase your knowledge. By mistake you will become Master of your business

1. "Mistakes are the portals of discovery." - James Joyce

2. "YOU make mistakes. MISTAKES DON'T MAKE YOU." - Maxwell Maltz

3. "Mistakes are the growing pains of WISDOM." - William George Jordan

4. "If you're not making mistakes, then you're not making decisions." - Catherine Cook

5. "Fear of mistakes is the root of lack of confidence." - Dan Rockwell

6. "An error doesn't become a mistake until you refuse to correct it." - Orlando A. Battista

7. "Fear of mistakes is just another way of procrastinating, of never moving forward." - Robin S. Sharma

8. "The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one." - Elbert Hubbard

9. "I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying." - Michael Jordan

10. "The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing." - Henry Ford

Bonus 1

"It's not how we make mistakes, but how we correct them that defines us." - Rachel Wolchin

Bonus 2

"Mistakes teach you important lessons. Every time you make one, you're one step closer to your goal." - Unknown

Bonus 3

"Never be afraid to try something new. Remember, amateurs built the ark; professionals built the Titanic." - Unknown :

40 SUCCESS QUOTES:

1. "Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful." - Albert Schweitzer

2. "Success is not in what you have, but who you are." - Bo Bennett

3. "Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts." - Winston Churchill

4. "Success is not the absence of failure; it's the persistence through failure." - Aisha Tyler

5. "Success is not about the destination, but the journey." - Zig Ziglar

6. "Success is not measured by money, but by the impact you have on others." - Unknown

7. "Success is not about being the best, but becoming your best self." - Unknown

8. "Success is not about how much you accomplish, but how you inspire others to accomplish." - Unknown

9. "Success is not about luck, it's about hard work and dedication." - Unknown

10. "Success is not about the applause, but the satisfaction of knowing you gave it your all." - Unknown

11. "Success is not about the number of times you fall, but the number of times you get back up." - Unknown

12. "Success is not about being perfect, but embracing your imperfections." - Unknown

13. "Success is not about what you have, but who you become in the process." - Unknown

14. "Success is not about the size of your bank account, but the size of your heart." - Unknown

15. "Success is not about the destination, but the lessons learned along the way." - Unknown

16. "Success is not about winning every battle, but choosing the battles worth fighting for." - Unknown

17. "Success is not about the accolades, but the impact you make on others." - Unknown

18. "Success is not about the possessions you accumulate, but the memories you create." - Unknown

19. "Success is not about the title, but the influence you have on others." - Unknown

20. "Success is not about the quantity, but the quality of your relationships." - Unknown

21. "Success is not about the fame, but the fulfillment of living your purpose." - Unknown

22. "Success is not about the destination, but the person you become in the process." - Unknown

23. "Success is not about the material possessions, but the intangible values you hold dear." - Unknown

24. "Success is not about the external validation, but the internal satisfaction." - Unknown

25. "Success is not about the shortcuts, but the long-term commitment." - Unknown

26. "Success is not about the competition, but the collaboration." - Unknown

27. "Success is not about the quantity of your achievements, but the quality of your character." - Unknown

28. "Success is not about the destination, but the growth you experience along the way." - Unknown

29. "Success is not about the size of your dreams, but the determination to pursue them." - Unknown

30. "Success is not about the applause, but the fulfillment of knowing you gave it your all." - Unknown

31. "Success is not about the destination, but the lessons learned from the journey." - Unknown

32. "Success is not about the number of followers, but the impact you have on their lives." - Unknown

33. "Success is not about the recognition, but the satisfaction of knowing you made a difference." - Unknown

34. "Success is not about the destination, but the person you become in pursuit of it." - Unknown

35. "Success is not about the possessions, but the experiences that enrich your life." - Unknown

36. "Success is not about the external validation, but the internal fulfillment." - Unknown

37. "Success is not about the shortcuts, but the perseverance through challenges." - Unknown

38. "Success is not about the competition, but the collaboration that leads to greatness." - Unknown

39. "Success is not about the quantity of achievements, but the quality of your character." - Unknown

40. "Success is not about the destination, but the growth and transformation you undergo.”

LIFE IS GOOD WHEN YOU HAVE PEACE

You can choose to live like a champion or choose to living like a victim, so life is better when you living line a champion

Life is better when you make space

for what you love.

This world will rob you of every ounce of happiness that you possess-if you let it.

You have to be intentional about giving yourself something to look forward to. You have to prioritize your joy. So find something to do, someone to love, something to hope for because joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.

Life becomes meaningful when you actively protect your peace and nurture what fuels your soul. Don't wait for joy to find you-create it in the small moments and the big ones.

Remember, your happiness is your responsibility, and it's worth every effort.

This is a couple.

In these backpacks, there are many things: problems, economic struggles, joy, sadness, and more.

Life will throw challenges your way, and at times, the load will feel impossible to bear.

But when you have a reliable partner, someone who stands by your side through the storms and the sunshine, you realize that no weight is too heavy.

Together, you find strength. Together, you share the burden.

And together, you experience the beauty of lifting each other up.

True love means being each other’s support when the world feels too much to handle.

Never underestimate the power of facing life’s journey with the right person by your side.