“Hey honey… Have you seen this?” My husband asked, showing me an email he had received. I barely glanced at it before answering. “Nope!” “It’s from our group. They’re having a Halloween party… swinger style!” My hubby informed me. “Really?” I asked with interest. “Hang on, let me see if I got an email from them too.” Sure enough, a quick look at my inbox proved that I had gotten an email invite. Hmm… it’s been some time since the last group party… “Sounds like it could be a lot of fun!” I remarked excitedly, but then my mood crashed. “But who would watch the kids? You can go if you want to, and I’ll stay home.” I offered because this was the simplest solution and I was almost always stuck home with the kids anyway. I was used to it… “That’s not fair!” My husband protested. “I got to go to

