"I know. That's something I have been wrestling with for quite awhile. The only present remedy is to set the diameter of the cuff or the chain loop so that it is a bit loose when the arm or leg is extended and tightens up when the joint is bent."
"Right. And…" Sandy stopped.
"Yes? What?"
"Well, I think we need some sort of safety for this kind of thing. Since we both tend to self bind, we need a sure fire escape system."
"I agree. The physical aspect is not really too difficult, but the psychological elements are tougher."
"What do you mean?"
"Well, you just pointed out that from the start, what was really getting you off was the prospect that you could not get free. You had lost control and that turned the heat up even higher than the usual self-torture kind of like whipping yoursel
