He knows exactly what I mean. “You can be a feminist and still want to be dominated by a man in bed.”
“Gloria Steinem would be so disappointed in me.”
“Gloria Steinem got married, lass. The woman who coined the phrase ‘A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle’ eventually wanted a husband. It’s biological. Evolutionary. Even the strongest woman needs a man.”
I wrinkle my nose. “Barf.”
He chuckles. “The opposite is also true. Even the strongest man needs a woman. We’re made for each other.”
“How do gay people fit into that gendered philosophy?”
“They’re made for each other, too. It’s not about tab A fits into slot B. It’s about who you are as a human. What turns you on. What you need. Everyone has a match. A fit. Yin to yang, light to darkness. It’s when we fight it and judge it
