I did discuss it with Gwen and she told me that she was not ready to have another pregnancy and she didn't know when, or even if, she would ever want one. "How do you feel about it? Are you hot for a male heir?"
"No honey, my position hasn't changed. It is your body, not mine. Babies or no babies is strictly up to you."
"Well I don't want them now."
"Fine honey, no problem."
For the next three years every couple of months my mom would ask me if Gwen was ready to be a mother yet and all I could tell her was that I didn't know.
"Well damn it Brian, she's your wife and you should have some say in the matter."
"I do have a say in it mother and what I say is that it is her body, not mine. If she does not want to have children it is her choice."
One night at my Uncle Al's birthday party I
