🥰 Introduction of my mother:-
My mother was a very good person. She was born in a village and the condition in which she was living was not very good and she was very good in studies so she wanted to study and my maternal grandfather wanted her to study but my maternal uncle had a little problem that the girl she is going out and how will she is stay out, so all these things were very much there but my mother was good in studies so my grandfather got her educated.
My mother used to do household work and my aunt also used to do it but she used to work, study and always came first in her class, her teachers also liked her a lot because she was good not only in studies but also in many other things and the children in her class also loved her a lot.
My mother used to go to school my cycle. The school was not very far but she was so scared that sometimes the cycle would breakdown, sometimes there would be some problem and she would have to go late. So there was a lot of difficulty as to what and how it would happen.
Mummy was sometimes scared too. She could not share her thoughts with anyone. She told her father only, she told her mother only because she knew that whatever I wished for, it is not necessary that all those things will happen.
But yes, her maternal grandparents helped her a lot and her maternal grandparents never thought that they would be in trouble. Their children were always happy. A lot of things happened in their life too. But there are ups and downs in everyone's life. So I don't know the whole thing and if I get to know in future then I would definitely like to tell you about it in this story.
Whatever is there before this, I am explaining it here, so I will tell the rest of the story....
His relationship with my mother was not very good with my uncle, it was even better with my aunty. He had a good relationship with my maternal grandparents and his relationship with my aunty was not that good either, to be honest because aunty was not like what she appeared to be, because if she used to trouble my mother and aunty a bit or did any wrong thing, she used to do it and then she would not even say that yes I have done something like that.
If she did something like this, then that was the thing that mother did not like at all, but she never said anything to anyone that she liked it or not or anything and as for as my maternal grandparents are concerned, my maternal grandparents were very good people and I got along very well with them.
What happened once was that I went to his house and he loved me a lot and also liked me a lot, so he used to give me everything, what I liked and what I didn't like, I was a little girl and I like the way the he took care of me a lot.
Even today I remember that thing and I liked it a lot, if someone asked me to go with him then I would like to go but I regret that my maternal grandfather is no more and even after my maternal grandfather is not there, somewhere or the other I have my maternal grandmother.
One thing happened,when I was very small and I was very fond of cooking, so at that time I was going to make tea and it had to be made on the stove, there were stoves in the village, so I knew how to make it on the stove, so I was making it and he saw that I was going to make tea and he stopped me saying, no you should not do it, else you will get burnt but I did not listen to him and I got ready to make tea.
So he stopped me, I did not listen to him and he slapped me but I am so crazy that I did not feel bad at all, rather I felt very good, at that time I did not show him how I felt, how I did not feel. It feels good, does n't it it, that somewhere there is some love, first he hit me or whatever he did, that too is love.
So now I am going to tell in my story what is my role in this story and what have I done or what trouble have I faced in my life, have I done wrong to anyone or what have I learned, I will tell all those things in it.
My family was very big. There were many people in my family, first of all my grandfather's mother and father, his mother had died, so after his mother's death, his aunty that is his mother's sister got married to his father's so after that things had changed a lot, he to care of anyone, my grandfather had six brothers, if you see, he had three real brothers and apart from that when he got married to his aunty, he had four sons and a daughter so he made a lot of difference in them and love them too but there were so many people that there was always quarrel among each other. All these things kept happening, so gradually they grew up.
My grandfather knew many things like Urdu, English, Astrology, he could speak all the things very well and he knew it very well, then he was also a Neke pal, he had a job, even after working, when he used to come back from work he was given the least food because he was the elder one so it used to happen that he should be given less, but my grandmother tolerated in thinking that it is okay, I am the elder one, it's okay, there is no problem but after that when my grandfather got married after the marriage but my grandfather tolerated it thinking that it is okay, I am the elder one, it's okay, there is no problem but after that when my grandfather got married, after the marriage, when my grandmother came home, then my grandmother was also very nice, it was not that she was not good at all but grandmother had also suffered a lot.
Grandmother used to do all the work of the house and was also very smart in cooking but she did not get along very well with her mother-in-law because they used to fight. My grandmother's voice was very loud so there would be fights with her because of her voice which she always did not want to do but it always happened, so one day grandfather got tired of seeing all this, he knew that my grandmother was not wrong, so he took his wife. Example:- Grandmother left the place. My grandfather was from Nek pal, he resigned and left the house without taking anything.
He started walking on the road, he started going towards the parts, where he would eat food by begging, meaning, if someone gave it to him after begging then it was fine, if he did not give, it was okay and then it was okay and he continued walking in this manner. He did not even have clothes but if he saw a tap or a river somewhere, he would bathe there. In this way, while going he saw a village where he went and there he treated a bull and how he tells.
There was a house where he went to get food when he went to get food he is saw that there was a who was and Bull was the only one in the whole village and his health was so bad that he was not going to survive the Doctor had also said that now he will not survive.
Then his owner left him like that, tired and defected then my grandfather asked how the bull was sick. So he told him the whole thing that his health is not good and he will not survive then grandfather told him a medicine that he had to mix jaggery in lime and feed it to him and this was a very natural medicine which would be very useful for that bull.
So the owner of the bull thought that when the doctor has also not said that the bull will not survive, then let's listen to him once, who knows my bull may get well, where I have given him so many medicines let's listen to him as well. By then grandfather and grandmother had left from there, then when he gave that medicine to the bull, he got well after 1 hour.
The owner of the bull started searching for my grandparents,where did those who had come to take food go. He gave his land to my grandparents and he built a hut and gave everything to my grandfather. My grandfather knew how to make medicines very well and he started making medicines there and started giving it to people, due to which he built his nice house and then we all shifted there and he brought us up very well there, our father's house was there after that he did many things there.
His troubles did not end here also. He went to his old house from where he had left and tried to bring his family back but the way there was very different. After that, even there a grandmother wanted to take her rights but people did not let her take him. People that are her brothers and her mother found a lot here and then it comes to light that they want their rights on the place where they have built their house now. My grandfather clearly said that he has the right here, that is my grandparents have the right and at least my grandmother took the property which was her's.
After that, my elder father and my father all started living in the same house where my grandfather had built the house and my grandmother also had a sister who lived there and everyone lived well but after my elder father got married, a lot of problems started.
First of all, how did my mother and father get married?