OLIVIA. Time flies when people are preoccupied with work and careers. I have been engaged to Amos for three years now. The issue of taking it to the next step has never been suggested and quite frankly we have been so busy to go that path. We have gone to several dates, participated in countless activities together and even gone on a vacation together. Amos has respected my request that he lets me take my time. I respect his patience too, it takes a real man to wait that long. I have seen many women throwing themselves at him, some very beautiful but he has rejected their overtures and remained true to me. I know he wants us to proceed to marriage but we can't go there because I have some fears about him that I can't divulge to him just yet. Maybe I'll get the courage to tell him in fut

