BRINGING OUT THE BEST IN PEOPLE

THE PSYCHOLOGY OF MOTIVATION

Have you ever wondered at the way certain people bring out the best in others? they seem to know how to get an extra effort from the people they lead. we have all known them some are teachers or heads of companies others are baseball managers or mothers . frequently without good looks or extraordinary intelligence, they seem to process a knack for inspiration. and this remarkable skill and the art of motivation makes them highly successful at all most everything they do.

On the other hand there are those who seem to bring out the worst in us . when we around certain people we feel clumsy

and inept and find our selves acting in negative ways that puzzles us later . their pep talk ends up becoming lectures, and through they ma intended to inspire us ,they actually intimidate us .

My work as a psychotherapist has furnished me with opportunities to observe this various pulls we have on each other and to ponder the source of inspiration. When I met people who where, peak per-formers I often asked, what motivated you? who first got you on the right track, and how did they do it .always motivate people to do good things ,what people won't tell you is that it adds to you in one way or the other