"Dear Shonda I've done a great deal of back and forth regarding what I am about to disclose to you. At first, I convinced myself that for the sake of your sanity, your kids and your family, I should keep quiet about what my investigation into Lisa Mitchell has revealed. I thought I'd be able to live with the guilt of hiding from a wife the true nature of her husband and a friend she holds dear. However, my conscience couldn't let me keep the truth hidden. Lisa Mitchell has been sleeping with your husband. I am a person who believes in facing things head on no matter what they are and no matter how much it hurts. However, I must admit that there are things that I myself would much rather run away from. My own experiences have taught me that sometimes it is better for the truth to be h

