Chapter 7 The competitive and self-destructive nature of Agne, inevitably deteriorates the foundations of any relationship — trust, commitment and agreements. Every time she restarts one, she already knows that she will repeat the same cycle, while not knowing why she feels the need to do so. And because of that, she avoids being trustworthy, she avoids commitment and she breaks all agreements. The best evidence of this came when she said: — “I need my friends, even if they hate you, because they can help me when we breakup.” Agne chooses her friends, who want the relationship destroyed and prioritize their selfishness over her relationship, because the more the relationship deteriorates, the more she prepares herself for the stage of detachment. Fundamentally, she destroys a relatio

