Chapter 14 The pre-marriage ritual in the Bedouin custom began the following day . The first step was that the groom's father or someone related to him were to ask the bride´s father her hand on behalf of his son. As it was necessary that this role were performed by a grown- up male, Faisal's father agreed to play it. Faisal and his thus presented themselves at Abdullah´s regal tent where the latter was waiting for them with the traditional brewed coffee. As prescribed by the custom Faisal´s father Karim abstained from drinking the infusion up to moment in which the Sheik agreed to grant his daughter´s hand. At that time women from both families came together with songs and laughter to celebrate the decision to carry out the marriage. The next step was discussing the dowry that t

