Soon enough, there was a big four tier cake on a table in front of Tara and Justin. I could see Justin grinning a little too much and Tara struggling to keep her smile on as she fidgeted with her fingers to hide her nervousness. They were moments away from finding out the gender of the baby. There was excited chatter in the entire group except for Anna, who was the only one who already knew the baby's gender and was responsible for arranging this gender reveal party. As I waited for them to cut their cake, I wondered if I was making the right decision in waiting to know the baby's gender. This seemed exciting- all of this. Having your friends around and this little lowkey party like a get together with boxes for name suggestions for the baby, good food, and getting to know the baby's gen

