RELATIONSHIP AND MOTIVATION

WHY SHOULD BE SPARK HER CURIOSITY

WHY YOU SHOULD SPARK HER CURIOSITY

Men

Three things you should bear in the mind while approaching a woman for relationship are!

1. She is just like other women, nothing is special about her .

2. You are the prize and must demonstrate it through your attitudes not by words.

3. She can either accept or reject you, the choice is hers and you are fine with her final decision .

This mindset will give you the confidence and the boldness to talk to her without appearing needy.

It will spark her curiosity and she will try to know why you are different from her other male admirers

This is how attraction is built in women. They want a man who is confident in himself, a man who doesn't look for validation, a man who does things different from others, a man who don't appear needy, a man who seemed to have many options.

A beautiful lady who is in her prime receives at least five male admirers everyday . This number increases if she is an extrovert but it decreases as she ages and her beauty start fading.

One thing common about these male admirers is that they approach her with the same method of singing her praises, trying to impress her and appearing needy and desperate, thinking that it is the best way to win her heart .

Some will even start professing love instantly , telling her how they can't survive without her, how she is the sun that shines in their night, how she is the breath that is sustaining their lives .

Bro, she is used to all these boring praises and she is not moved by it. She will just tell you thank you and smile it off but one thing is that she has already listed you in the "playboy" list and won't take you serious.

That is why sometimes when a lady gives you her number, when you start trying it after gotten home, you will discover that it is a wrong number or she will give you an attitude that will make you regret of calling her .

Learn how to do things differently from other people, that is what make you special and it will spark her curiosity to know why you are special and different from other men.

When you see a woman that caught your attention, approach her with dignity and initiate conversation to make her comfortable.

you can tease her and make her smile. Women love jovial and humorous guys but do it moderately .

In your first outing, don't initiate relationship , don't talk too much, don't reveal too much about yourself, allow her to do the talking by chipping in simple and powerful questions that will make her talk for long you will be surprise how she will get comfortable with you and narrate all her family history for you.

If you know how to screw and unscrew her emotional nuts with humour in your first outing, you will see her chasing after you and demanding for more outings.

You can't win a woman's heart by seeking for her validation,

You can win her attraction by being confident and stop appearing needy.

Be wise

Don't loose guard