SELF CONFIDENCE IS PATH WAY TO ABUNDANT BLESSINGS, problem are not merely part of life but life itself, life would become prosic

YOU FUTURE IS IN YOUR HANDS

Start believing that you are the master of your own destiny, others cannot decide the course of your life, this two statement should be clearly understood by you, it does not mean that you should not listening to others, advice, since you may need learning and advise from others, since you may not know everything on every subject, you may need learning and advise from others.

At times it may become necessary for you to listen to what others people say, lot of things are said to influence your thought, sometime you get a surfeit of advice that confuses you as to which advice to follow, it is not rare you get contradictory advice on the same subject but what you should do is your own discretion.

Don't forget every advice given to you come out of experience of the adviser, your own experience may be different and you may feel the advice given to you is not appropriate to your situation or circumstances, listen to others people advice but use your sense of discretion by analysing the pros and cons of the advice in the light of the situation in which you are placed and draw your own conclusions as to what part of the advice you should accept and what part to reject.

Discretion is the word it is not always possible for the advisor to know all your circumstances, usually advice is given only in general terms and it's application into a particular situation it may not be possible or useful.

Discretion is a subjective word and unless you use your discretion in taking advice and acting on it you may land in trouble.

No two persons are identical in physical form or in mental stature, each person should live accordingly to his own rules and you are the best person to decide the rules of your life that is why I have said at the beginning of this chapter that you are the master of your own destiny and others cannot decide the course of your life .

A fatalistic approach to life is unproductive, unfortunately most of us are trained and brought up on a philosophy of fatalism, and we take it for granted that our life is preordained and so every event of our life is predetermined and things will happen only in that way, it is a totally negative attitude towards life and a meek surrender to inaction and helplessness, the preordained philosophy totally ignore the purpose for which God has created man, if God has preordained everything for us, he would not have given us brain with boundless energy and infinite thinking power, the brain consist of million of cell, many dynamic cell bestowing immense possibility.

The very psysiological structure of man brain and it functioning is the greatest marvel of nature.

certainly God has done this so that Man should use his intellect and physical process to live his life successful and meaningful.

Man capacity to think independently give him what is called a freewill, the fact that no two lives are similar us a proof enough to show that no two men can think on the same line,, individual thinking is what I called freewill, by using the freewill judiciously man. can chart his own path in life and lead a successful life, whenever you read the lives of great men you will discover that their freewill responsible for all their achievement, most great men had a humble beginning, a river from it own place of origin is only a narrow stream and as it flow along it get broader.

many great men have had their humble beginning in hovel and huts but left their name prominent transcribed in page of history .

even during time of trials and adversity one should learn to keep the flame of self confidence burning after all as a human being you have life-force driving you forward and your freewill to guide you towards a chosen goal.

these are extraordinary advantages man is bestowed with and it is unfortunate if he is not aware of them or fail to use them in the activities of his life, since you have a retentive and successful freewill you can always direct your destiny the way you like, but it is essential that you make the Right choice with your freewill.

Discrimination between good and bad is the essence of life, listen to every advice analyse it's utility and then act, always Carry your confidence along and that will see you through even during your trials and dark hour's, Self confidence is the only key and touch to brighten up your path and don't allow it's brightness to be diminished.

With the proper exercise of your freewill you can make the right choice and overcome obstacle and March along happily towards your goal, when you have power of exercise your freewill how can anything be preordained for you? Only lazy and irresponsible people surrender themselves to circumstances and reconciled themselves to what they call their fate. God. has given you the power of judgement and how mould your life is your own business never blame God for your inadequacies and irresponsible attitude towards your life, because God. has endowed you with a great ideal of wealth, thought not in terms of money but in terms of skills and the ability to acquire knowledge, beside the physical strength to move about and work hard, if you fritters away all his blessings and then blame God for your failure you can never escape judgement of being ungrateful to the Creator.

God Almighty has not preordained anything for you except He has given you all that you need to make your life happy, it is for you to use them to your advantage and plan your own destiny in the Sense that you are really master of your own destiny and no one else but you are responsible for what you make of your life .

Destiny is nothing but what you plan of your life and how hard you work to make it success ..

Your thoughts are responsible for what you are and positive thoughts gives you a positive direction to life, also Negative thought give you negative direction, now decide on your goal be equipped for it, work hard towards it, learn to overcome difficulty and never hesitate or look back, March on your onwards journey and always keep your sight on your goal with self confidence and a positive attitude towards life, everything is possible, you may commit mistake but you can always learn from your mistake and rectify them, nothing can be an impediment for the man with determination to reach the goal .

Ultimately destiny is what you write of your life, every person is an individual with free will of his own and so every one should shape his destiny according to his wish and circumstances .