BROOKLYNN Aaron: Meet at the garden at 6. Dress casual. Well, what do I say to that? Dress casual? That is such a vague explanation! He didn’t even tell me where we would be going. Do I wear jeans? A dress? Will I have to wear heels? No, no. of course it won't be heels. Heels aren’t casual shoes. Then again, all of my heels are maybe an inch tall and look fantastic with jeans. But I also have some fantastic sneakers, a pair of Gucci platform loafers, and some cute Teva sandals. All are great options. Shoes became my obsession back home. I didn’t have any friends; just the guys. Our parents didn’t like us going out too far away or for too long, so whenever I did, I liked to get a little dressed up. I quickly figured out that I could easily dress up an outfit with the right pair o

