Kalahari. " my past is wierd right, scarred beyond repair" I announced. I huffed while relieving tension on the sofa. " no not at all . You can't alter some things Kalahari. That's just how life is . Unfair yes very unfair." he said . I told him the story of my life . I know he sees me quite oppositely. "and f****d up" I added . " you are undergoing stages of grief." he asserted . " what are they?" I had never heard about it at all. " Grief is an oppressive sensation. It’s not unprecedented to concede to the serious and often sudden emotions by feigning the loss or change isn’t occurring. Renouncing it gives you time to more deliberately absorb the news and begin to process it. This is a common defense mechanism and helps numb you to the zeal of the situation. As you move out of

