FRANKIE "Is this your car?" my son Ashton asks looking around the car in admiration. "Yeah. You like?" I glance at him smiling. "Dude where did you get the money to buy such a nice car? Did you join your family in running their business?" Of course Ash knows about my family's illegal dealings. He's probably picked it from his cousins when he comes to visit. My family tends to mention it in passing from time to time like it's normal and it's not. "Ash don't call dad dude" as always my daughter defends. She's sandwiched between Ash and I taking selfies. I never did all this when I was her age. Phones were there but I didn't care to have one. Besides they weren't smart phones, there wasn't much to do with them. "What? It's an honest question" Ash shrugs "I mean the guy is buying h

