I decided to be explicit in my ads about what I wanted. “Married woman used to having her own way seeks man amenable to discipline and willing to experiment.” I soon got replies. There was a deluge of c**k shots despite my instructions not to send any; the senders went straight in the waste bin. There was one guy, rather good-looking, younger than me, who said he had experience of FLR (female-led relationships) and wanted to go deeper.
We met in a hotel bar, as was my usual habit. He had a good body, slim but active, by the look of him. I told him a bit about myself, said I wanted no strings s*x but if it went well might be agreeable to it developing into a relationship. When we were on our second drink I said I wanted to take him upstairs to the room I had booked and make a physical insp
