19 Singer 40 days with Miles Singer insisted on helping with the dishes. He stood with Kara at the windows peering over the side yard of her lovely renovated flat in San Francisco, watching Victor and Jake play with the kids. “They’re very sweet with Miles,” he said. “I can’t imagine having more than one right now.” One of the boys was circling a giggling Miles around on the grass, while Miles tried desperately to stay up on hands and knees. Every few laps he collapsed, and five-year-old Ty would pick him up again. “I felt like that each time. And then, I don’t know. We’d start looking at each other, and…” Kara smiled, a little wryly. “Then we’d get back on the roller coaster. How’s the psychological side of adoption going for you?” “It doesn’t feel … real, yet. I guess because it is

