My doll!
When you will grow up and become mature, you find a lot of free advisers who just make others tense by advising. In our life, we meet so many people and those people teach us long-lasting life lessons by their behavior and decisions. Therefore, we must know that we have to be a good listener. You must listen all, but do what is righteous and desired. You must be the master of your self, not others. There would be so many people who will try to control you and your feelings by giving advices, but you have to be stronger to just allow one person to control, that is "you yourself". There would be different kinds of people to make you feel they are better. Whatever you do, they will never be happy because they are just talkers. They have no energy left to work for their dreams. So, they try to Manila the task of disturbing others. When you give more importance to others, they take it to use against you. In addition to that, they will try to show you their negative sides. Those side which are concealed. In short, listen to all, but do what you want to.