‘After matric, I am getting out of here.’ ‘Will you come to Germany so that we can spend time together?’ ‘I promise you that I will come to Germany as soon as I can afford a ticket.’ ‘I can’t wait for then. My parents will love you. Sorry I did not mean to say that.’ ‘No, you are right. My parents were very unfair to you and I will never forgive them for that.’ ‘Please don’t hate your parents because of me. They are still your parents and although I think their beliefs are totally irrational, I also think that they are sending me back because they love you, especially your dad.’ ‘And you taught me how to wrestle.’ ‘What?’ ‘You asked me whether I learned something from you. You taught me how to wrestle and to be more comfortable with my body. Unfortunately, this also made you a lesb

