Destined to be

chapter 40

Previously ;

Grandma: " You should meet her . "

Tyler: " I am trying to come out of a relationship and you want me to meet some girl . "

Grandma: " Like a friend you both are going through the same phase . Maybe you both will e able to console each other . "

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All too often in life , we find ourselves confronted with wonderful phases of life suddenly and abruptly coming to an end . No matter if it’s the end of a beautiful relationship , a good friendship or a fulfilling job , it’s never easy to accept that it’s gone for good . As you may know , coming to terms with what has happened and finally letting go is never easy . In fact , many of us think that holding on to the past is a sign of strength . However , quite the contrary is the case . It often takes a lot more strength to move on with your life than holding on to a past that no longer is . At the same time, desperately trying to hold on to that which once was will only create even more problems.

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Life is all about continuous growth . It isn’t designed to be static and unmovable . Instead , it’s dynamic and continuously confronts us with change . Whether we like it or not , change cannot be avoided .

As such , trying to pursue permanence only means suffering in the long run . That’s because you will never be able to fully hold on to every aspect of your life . Instead , one part of your life may eventually leave while other aspects will become parts of your life .

Sometimes , it feels as if there are hundreds of reasons not to move on . We hope that by holding on , we somehow have a chance of getting back to how things once were . But in most cases , this is impossible. So instead of desperately trying to hold on , it’s important for your physical and mental well-being to eventually let go of what happened and to move on with your life .

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