Steven was depressed . His love life was falling apart in front of his eyes . He wanted to save it but he was feeling helpless . He went to his psychiatrist ;
Jenny: " Steven ? What are you doing here ? "
Steven: " Hi Jenny . "
Jenny: " Hi , I have not seen you in a long time now what brings you here . "
Steven: " I am having problems with Clara , my fiancee . "
Jenny: " What happened you both love each other . "
Steven: " Yes but she doesn't trust me . She acts all insecure . I don't want to loose her but I don't know what to do . Help me ! "
Jenny: " I have witnessed situations where couples would claim they love each other , but they wouldn’t trust one another . Without trust , I don’t think their love will ever reach its full potential . How can you love someone fully and unconditionally , if you don’t trust that person ? It definitely takes time to establish and earn someone’s trust . Like friendships , Friendships are also rooted in trust . Imagine how difficult life would be if we couldn’t trust our closest friends .
A couple involved romantically and in a long-term relationship , should also have a strong friendship as the foundation . Building relationships strictly on infatuations is like building a house on sand .
Relationships seem so much peaceful and enjoyable when not only love but also trust is found at the core . Life is way too short in my view , and we should share our lives with a partner that not only loves us , but trusts us in every way .
I’m also not just talking about trust with regards to being faithful . But also trust regarding the decisions and choices we make , trust in our abilities and talents , and trust us as human beings that we will always have the best mutual intentions in mind . And for you and Clara , I have seen you two , you both are perfect for each other . Every perfect relationship has a few imperfections . Just try to not give up on one another . "
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